Whether you believe it or not, your attitude plays such a tremendous role in your relationship with people and how they look up to you. When I was little girl, my mother always told me " your attitude make people not like you". And, I never understood why she said it, but she was right.

See, you will have to change your attitude if you want to save your broken marriage. Of course I was never married as a child, but I can recall quite a few kids my age disassociating themselves from me, because of my nasty attitude.

Truthfully, it made me feel bad, but for some reason, I struggled with a bad attitude throughout my life. There comes a point in time where you just have to change. To be real, you will have to want to change in order to change your attitude if you want to save your marriage.

With an attitude, you can brighten or make someone angry or sad. But, if you truly love your husband, and he is telling you that your attitude stinks, then I believe it is time to put some magic of making up in your marriage and adjust your attitude.

Most people people do not understand the effectiveness of a positive attitude. That right there is just the key to a great relationship with a person that you love, enjoy being with, respect, admire, trust and communicate with. But you know what else? One thing I never mentioned is the big word, "best friend".

Yes , the person you got married to should be your best friend. And you know best friends tell each other secrets that no one knows, they trust each other, respect each other, and love each other. If you do not have this in your marriage, it is probably because one of your attitudes need adjustment. Am I talking about you? Well, if you think I'm talking about you, then it is obvious that it is you that need to adjust your attitude, right?

Do not feel bad, every once in a while it's o.k to check yourself. Shoot, I check myself all of the time. You know, alternative marriage counseling can be a great way to get your marriage back on track, so that you can save your marriage by having that god given beautiful attitude that God gave you, but you never knew about. Go ahead and save your marriage, I know you want to.