Have you always wanted to be a mom?  You figured it wouldn’t be a problem.  You and your partner decided that it is time to start trying for a baby.  The first month goes by nothing happens.  The second month goes by nothing happens.  This goes on for a few more months.  You start to get worried and frustrated.  You never thought that trying to get pregnant was going to be such a problem.  Finally you go to your doctor, and they tell you not to worry until you have been trying for a year.  

It is very easy for a doctor to tell you that they don’t have to go through the disappointment month after month.  It continues to get more frustrating when friends and family always ask “so when are you going to have kids.”  They have no idea that you have been trying with no success.

The good news is there are some simple and natural things that you can try.  You don’t have anything to lose, and if you conceive it would sure be worth it.   Some helpful hints that you can try would be eating a good balanced diet.  I know that it sounds like common sense, but it is very important that you are healthy before you conceive.  A baby depends on the mother for all nutrition for the 40 weeks of their life.   It is also important that you do not smoke or use alcohol.  This alone could greatly increase your chances of having a baby.

Try and stay calm about conceiving.  This is an extremely hard thing to do when all you want is to be pregnant, and it is not happening.   If you’re stressed out your body knows this, and could be working against you.

There are many other things that can work against you such as age, or you have been told that you are infertile.  This may not necessarily be true.  We all trust doctors, and want to believe everything that they say.  I am not saying that they are not correct, but sometimes you just need someone on your side that understands what you are going through.

Just think that changing a few things in your life could lead you to conceive next month.  What a great blessing that would be.  You could finally tell your friends and family that you will be having a baby.  I really hope that you do have a baby.  There is no greater blessing.