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3 Critical Steps To Compel Your Ex-Girlfriend Back Into Your Arms
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You've just been through the breakup. Heartache, depression, and a cluttered mind are the three worst symptoms you're experiencing right now.

And, of course, you see no way to get your ex-girlfriend back.

I'm going to share with you three critical steps that will compel her back to you. You will need to follow them carefully, and it will take time for this to happen. In some cases, your relationship may be beyond the point of salvation, but in most cases it's not.

(Generally, every relationship is salvageable unless she's blocked you and called the cops on you. Then, you need to just let it go.)

Here we go...

1. Get distance between you and her.

I'm going to assume you've been texting her and calling her, or messaging her through whatever social platform you use. But here's a simple truth:

The worst thing you can do after a breakup is to contact your ex.

We all do it. I did it. It sucked. Made things way worse.

But then I learned: contacting your ex-girlfriend after a breakup is a bad idea because it tells her that you're desperate.

And that's not the message you want to send.

So what you need to do, this first critical step, is get distance between you and her. Get yourself on your own again, standing on your own two feet. And in point number 2, I'm going to tell you how to do that.

2. Clear your mind, and start focusing on yourself.

I advise taking a walk, listening to some music, or playing your favorite sport. Throw yourself into your work. Do whatever you have to to get your focus OFF your ex-girlfriend and ON to yourself.

You need to clear your mind of the negative memories, and get it focused on the positive direction your life will take.

By doing this, you are making yourself an attractive guy once more. And that is a crucial part of getting your ex-girlfriend to come back to you.

3. Write the magic letter.

After you've successfully completed steps one and two, you're going to need to write a letter to your ex-girlfriend. There are key elements of this letter which include "nuggets" of information.

This information will peak her curiosity and get her to wonder what you're doing. For example, in one part of the letter, you're going to share with her your current success and happiness.

That will blow her mind. Why? Because she's got this picture of you as a depressed mess, after the breakup.

By showing her you're actually HAPPY, she's going to say... "Hey, what?" and then she's going to have to know more.

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