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3 Things To Consider Before You And Your Boyfriend Get Back Together
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3 Things to Consider Before You And Your Boyfriend Get Back Together

Are you considering getting back together with your ex boyfriend. Does the thought of being back together excite you? If your sure that this is something you want there are some things you should take into consideration first before you go down this path.

Now don't misunderstand what I'm saying. Many couples do successfully get back together after a breakup but in some cases these couples end up getting back together for the wrong reasons or without having dealt with the issues that lead to the breakup in the first place. If you want your relationship with your ex to be a success then you need to take some time and analyze the following issues:

Understand Why You Broke Up

There was a reason or possibly several reasons why you broke up and you and your ex boyfriend need to identify what those are. If you don't then you're going to head down the same path as before. Both of you must deal with the issues that lead to the breakup in the first place or you must mutually agree that the past reasons for the breakup are no longer an issue. It's not enough to simply have regrets about your past relationship. If you want to be successful then things need to change.

Let Go Of The Past

If you're serious about giving your relationship with your ex boyfriend another shot then you'll need to treat it as a new relationship and not an extension of the old one. This doesn't mean that you're starting over from scratch because you already know each other, but you will need to rebuild the trust and friendship that you once had. Lastly, as a couple you will need to assess your goals and work together to create a new life for yourselves as a couple.

Don't Let Your Emotions Get The Best Of You

There's no doubt that it's thrilling to talk to your ex boyfriend again and to piece your relationship back together. But you need to be careful when you're falling in love again and keep things in perspective. It's important when you're making decisions together to do it with a rational point of view instead of just a purely emotional one because if you let your emotions take over it could cloud your judgement about some important issues which may come back to haunt you later on.

If you really want to get back together again, make sure that you're both on the same page and that you're really ready to give it another shot. By taking the time to work through your feelings you could end up saving yourself a lot of heartache and grief if things don't work out as planned.

It's easy to believe that your ex boyfriend has changed since the breakup especially if you're eager to get back together with him. However if he hasn't really changed since you were last together then you'll only be setting yourself up for failure.

Set yourself up for a successful relationship by being honest with both yourself and your ex boyfriend to make sure that you don't go down the same path that lead you to breakup in the first place.


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  about 7 years ago

I have just read your article and found informative. I got interested about your article because of my daughter and her would be husband. The issues you have raised are important. One of them is marriage and family therapy which I have recommended to my daughter. I know that in your own imagination you do not need to be told that I like this article. It is an eye opener to so many other people who are going through such situations. I salute you for your good article.

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