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5 Steps To Get Your Ex To Want You Back
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After a breakup, it is just normal to feel hurt and long for your ex boyfriend. Even if it was him who dumped you when you think you have not done anything wrong, you will have to feel the need to see and be with him from time to time. More often than not, you will probably act impulsively to win him back. However, being too quick on your feet to get him back is not a good idea. It might just send your ex a wrong message. So instead of winning him out of pity, it is still best to stand tall and get your ex to want you back.

Give him space

Although it is hard to restrain yourself from making any contact with your ex, calling and texting him right after the the breakup is a very bad idea. Guys get out from relationships for a wide variety of reasons. But most of them, if not all, prefer to get their own space after a tough breakup. Trying to contact them every single day will only make them fed up and tired of you, and this is not what you want. So instead of sending him the impression of being too clingy, give him a few weeks off, or else you would be searching on how to get your ex to stop avoiding you instead.

Get your own space

Giving your ex boyfriend his own time and space is easy, only if you can get one of your own. Locking up in your room alone or listening to sad love songs throughout the whole day will only make you feel more hurt. It might even make you miss him even more. So to get the space that you well deserve, enjoy and do the things that make you happy. Sing, draw, shop and be with friends and family. This is not only helpful in making your ex want you back, but can also fill up the gap that you have been creating with your buddies and folks especially if you have spent most of your time with your ex.

Do not show weaknesses

Even if Snow White and Sleeping Beauty were both saved by their Prince Charmings, do not be weak and play the role of a damsel in distress. Focus on your own life and goals, and do not give your ex the impression that you’ll not be able to live without him. If by this time your ex boyfriend has tried contacting you, feel free to respond but in a casual and very neutral manner. Playing it cool and tough sometimes will not drive off a man. If he feels challenged, your ex might actually be interested and start making himself noticed.

Go on fun dates

Although it’s your ex that you want to be on a date with, it will not hurt to go on a few date nights with other guys especially if you want your ex to feel a little jealous. However, do not date seriously or go steady with someone if you expect to makeup with your ex boyfriend. Also remember to not go out with any of your ex’s friends if you don’t want to be in a bad light.


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