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A Simple Plan To Win Love Back
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A Simple Plan To Win Love Back

In your efforts to win love back there are many ways you could proceed. I find it is always helpful to begin at the beginning. First of all, you will need a bit of self confidence and a plan to follow. All relationships have their ins and outs and unique challenges so you will need a strategy that works for your own situation. So, while other people’s advice may be great to have, what worked for them may not necessarily work in your plan to win love back.

Keeping in mind that the route taken by your friends or family members may not work for you, it is still nice to have some input from others. The circumstances and issues they were dealing with may or may not help you in your plan to win love back. That being said, go ahead and get advice from others, just use it cautiously and only when it applies to your particular situation.

The first thing you need to realize in developing your plan to win love back is that you must absolutely, at all costs, avoid appearing desperate or clingy towards your ex. Unless, of course, you want to push them further away from you! What you need to do is begin to identify the problems/issues that led to the break up. Once you know the causes you can start putting together your plan of action. With a firm plan of action you can launch ‘Operation Win Love Back’.

Ready? Good! Now that you know what the issues were and have a firm grasp on how to fix them you are ready to go. Many times when we start really looking at a situation we realize there are things within ourselves that are less than desirable. If this is the case, begin to work on those unlovely parts of yourself. Becoming a better person is a good thing.

A common mistake made when trying to win love back is the tendency to only look at the bad parts of the relationship. Obviously there were good parts or you wouldn’t have hung around. So figure out what went wrong, but don’t dwell on it. After all, the plan is to fix the bad stuff and strengthen the good stuff, right? A fresh start will enable you to win love back even if it looks like a lost cause right now.

Now is the time to let go of any unreasonable expectations you may have had about your ex or their behavior. Don’t compromise your morals, but do give as much as you can and still be in your comfort zone. Being unreasonable at this point will only reinforce your ex’s idea that the break up was a good idea, and you will have a hard time trying to win love back.

Focus instead on the things about your ex that drew you to them originally, while reminding them of your good qualities. As you let all the bad, negative feelings float away you will find it easier to win love back.


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