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Can I Make Him Fall In Love With Me Again Before We Break Up?
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Can I Make Him Fall In Love With Me Again Before We Break Up?

He just doesn’t seem to be that into you any more and you feel you’re heading for a breakup for sure. You are most likely wondering, ‘can I make him fall in love with me again’? It’s a question people ask quite often. If this is you, the answer could be surprising.

First off, what makes you so sure he doesn’t love you anymore? Relationships can be really confusing. We open ourselves up and we become vulnerable. They can hurt us like we’ve never been hurt before. If we are too afraid of getting hurt we sometimes pull back and decide to end things before we get hurt.

That may not be what’s going on in your relationship, but sometimes it is really easy to misread signs. Your guy may be acting a little aloof and distant. This could be a sign he’s ready to ‘burn rubber’ out the back door. It could also mean that he’s reading some signals you are giving off and he’s confused. This kind of thing happens a lot. No wonder we all get befuddled sometimes!

For example, maybe you have something going on in your life and you aren’t your usual happy go lucky self. If you haven’t shared what’s going on with you, all he knows is that you’re acting different. He may think you are ready to dump him because you don’t love him anymore. So what you are reading from him could just be a ‘reflection’ of what you are sending out.

Getting things back on track with the two of you could be as simple as sitting down and talking to him calmly. If there is something going on with you, this would be a good time to let him know what’s up with you. Explain to him what you have been feeling from him and ask him what’s wrong.

What if you don’t think that is the problem at all? Maybe the two of you have drifted apart and are taking each other for granted. Have you gotten so busy and stressed out with life that you have forgotten to do the little things to show each other how you feel? It happens…a lot.

Showing him that you love him isn’t really all that hard. It’s really the little things that mean so much. A gentle touch as you walk by, a back rub, tucking a note in his lunch, these are the things that show your man he is cared for and can calm any fears he might have about the relationship.

So instead of wondering ‘can I make him fall in love with me again?’ You might want to see where he really stands. Could be that you will get a nice surprise.


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Joan S  

Good advice. Humans misread each other all the time.

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  about 7 years ago

They really do. Thanks for reading!

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  about 7 years ago

What an interesting niche - thank you for the read:)

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  about 7 years ago

Thanks Wayne!

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  about 7 years ago
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