Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back, whom you loved dearly with all your heart and soul? Do you now regret the break-up? Well, why don’t you get him back? It may sound desperate but, ladies, if you truly loved someone with whom you had a messy break up, then you have to put your ego aside and work towards fixing up your broken relationship. But don’t go all the way in trying to get your ex back, because that might just push him away. Instead, plan things out!

All those hints that you’ve been throwing at him are useless!

Girls think that guys will pick up on hints, but that is never the case. Ladies, guys seldom pick up on hints. Hence the first step that you need to take is making direct conversation. Now this is very simple, and hence might seem ridiculous, but that’s what guys respond to best. Go and say Hi!

Change yourself if you have to!

There is one very important point that you have to be cautious about: Don’t be like the person you use to be before that was part of the break up! Although it might not be your fault, but if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, then you must make some sacrifices. After talking to your ex, try to start up a friendship with him. And remember to go slow with your newly formed friendship! You won’t get your ex boyfriend back very soon. It will take some time for him to adjust himself to this newly formed link between you and him. So be patient and be a good friend to him.

Don’t get friend zoned!

But, you do not want to get too friendly with him as that might convince him to throw you in the friendship zone: A zone where girls, with whom guys would never consider getting into a relationship, belong. Remember, your goal is to get your ex boyfriend back, so be friendly but maintain a safe distance. Leave him while he is begging for more of your personality. Make him miss you! When he starts missing you, he will start to think about you. And with all those thoughts he will start to revise all the good times he spent with you while you were with him.

Get ready for a confrontation!

Now is the last stage of your patch up: Confrontation! Soon after, your ex starts thinking about you, as a guy, he will want to get back with you. But before he does, he will confront you, and talk about the break up. Hence, you must always be ready to answer tough questions whenever the time comes. Make him realize that you are sorry and that you have changed to get your ex boyfriend back. If he accuses you of anything, apologize! And don’t blame him for anything as that might put him off. The process might seem undignified, but it’s worth what you will have achieved at the end! This is how you can get your ex boyfriend back and live happily ever after.