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Does My Ex Still Love Me? - Read The Signs
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Does My Ex Still Love Me?  -  Read The Signs

Rejection cuts to the bone, it is a dreadful feeling that you will never forget for as long as you live. One of the first things that most people do when they are rejected by the person that they love is go into a state of denial. They tell themselves that it can't be happening to them, there must be some mistake. When someone dumps you out of the blue, then going into a state of denial is perfectly understandable.

Love is not an electrical appliance that can be turned off at the flick of a switch. Feelings are not just there one day and gone the next, they do not vanish into thin air. Even though your ex dumped you that does not mean that they no longer have feelings for you. The likelihood is your ex still harbors feelings for you. The strong connection that you and your ex made during the relationship can not be shattered so easily.

The relationship may be over (at least for now), but that doesn't mean that your ex doesn't love you anymore. Your ex may be trying to convince themselves that they do not love you, but take heart, love is too strong to deny. If you want your ex back you will have to learn the signs that your ex still loves you.

Making Your Ex Accept That They Still Have Feelings For You

The best (and often most overlooked) way to win your ex back is to make them see that they still have feelings for you. Given the fact that your ex has buried those feelings in an attempt to convince themselves that they no longer love you, it is up to you to uncover them again. In an attempt to win back an ex most people concentrate on telling that person how much they still love them, how they still have strong feelings. Most people do not focus on getting their ex to admit their feelings, this is a common mistake.

You will have to work on making your ex realize that he/she is denying their feelings for you. This will take time, effort, and know how. Being able to read the signs that your ex still loves you is essential if you really want to get them back. The signs and signals that your ex gives off will give you your cues to act.

Five Signs That Your Ex Still Has Feelings For You

1, Your ex still hangs around in the same places that you do and often "bumps into you" by "coincidence"

2, Your ex hasn't unfriended you on Facebook and other social networking websites.

3, Your ex arrives on your doorstep for no good reason.

4, Your ex asks your friends about how you are doing on a regular basis.

5, Your ex is still single and makes a point of letting you know this fact.

Making Your Ex Remember The Good Times

The bad periods in a relationship often overshadow the good. The reality is the vast majority of relationships compose of more good times than bad. Reminding your ex about the good times you shared together will go a long way towards softening their attitude, and making their feelings for you come back towards the surface. If it was good before then it can be good again, or even great!

Reminding your ex of good times past also has a downside. You will have do be very careful when you do this because your ex will no doubt be questioning your motives. If your ex thinks that you are trying to brainwash them back into the relationship, then they will retreat from you. Subtlety is key. If you drive a car with the gas pedal down all the time you will eventually crash. You have to know when to come off the gas and apply the breaks.

There are ways to get yourself back into your ex's life without appearing too obvious, or pushy. "Softly, softly, catchee monkey" as the old saying goes. If you acquire the knowledge needed to win your ex back into your life your chances of success will be greatly increased.

What Do I Do Now?

Now that you have a grasp of the basics it is time to take it to the next level. Being able to read the signs that your ex still loves you will but you in a better overall position. Some of the signs that your ex gives off will be so subtle they will almost be unnoticeable, you will have to tune yourself in order to pick up on them.

Being able to avoid the breakup mistakes that people make after a break up should also be on the top of your priority list. Most people approach a breakup from entirely the wrong angle and scupper their chances of getting the person that they love back into their life. Don't be one of those people.


Street Talk

Sarah2431  

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  about 7 months ago
precious4  

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  about 7 months ago
precious4  

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  about 7 months ago

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  about 8 months ago
Thanks3  

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  about 1 year ago
Thanks  

This good news can't be kept within me i need to share this great news with the whole for the great thing Dr ikuku has done for me,After 6years of broken relation i tired all my best to get back my lover Tricia but it never seems to work out well,People just kept on lying to me,Until one day was reading on the internet about this great man called Dr ikuku how he has helped lots of people in getting back there ex without any delay as i was just reading about Dr ikuku then this a program came up on the radio (How i got my ex)The i just focused on the program i had the shock of my life was that the person who i was reading about was the person that people where giving testimony about how Dr ikuku has also helped them in getting back there ex,i was just so surprised then i decided to think over and i was reading the news paper as well i also saw at the bak page a lady testifying in the name of this great man called Dr ikuku how he helped her in getting back her ex,i was so surprised and very convince that Dr ikuku is the right man i gave him a call immediately and shared my problem with him,He just laughed and said that i should not worry that my lover Tricia would be back to my arms within 24 Hours,when he told me this i was like if this is real i would spread his name round the world and all media where they can get to know him better and seek for help from him,Believe me with in 24 Hours it was a shock and guess who i saw on my door Tricia she was in tears and the greatest thing i hate is to see her tears i told her to stand up and told her how much i love and cherish her,She was so happy today we are bought together and she can't do without me a day am just so happy all this came to past with the help of Dr ikuku,Please if you are in need of help just kindly contact dr ikuku on ikukutempleofsolution@gmail. com or Cell Number +2348034458597 Name:Micky Dames Country:Usa

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  about 1 year ago
Thanks  

This good news can't be kept within me i need to share this great news with the whole for the great thing Dr ikuku has done for me,After 6years of broken relation i tired all my best to get back my lover Tricia but it never seems to work out well,People just kept on lying to me,Until one day was reading on the internet about this great man called Dr ikuku how he has helped lots of people in getting back there ex without any delay as i was just reading about Dr ikuku then this a program came up on the radio (How i got my ex)The i just focused on the program i had the shock of my life was that the person who i was reading about was the person that people where giving testimony about how Dr ikuku has also helped them in getting back there ex,i was just so surprised then i decided to think over and i was reading the news paper as well i also saw at the bak page a lady testifying in the name of this great man called Dr ikuku how he helped her in getting back her ex,i was so surprised and very convince that Dr ikuku is the right man i gave him a call immediately and shared my problem with him,He just laughed and said that i should not worry that my lover Tricia would be back to my arms within 24 Hours,when he told me this i was like if this is real i would spread his name round the world and all media where they can get to know him better and seek for help from him,Believe me with in 24 Hours it was a shock and guess who i saw on my door Tricia she was in tears and the greatest thing i hate is to see her tears i told her to stand up and told her how much i love and cherish her,She was so happy today we are bought together and she can't do without me a day am just so happy all this came to past with the help of Dr ikuku,Please if you are in need of help just kindly contact dr ikuku on ikukutempleofsolution@gmail. com or Cell Number +2348034458597 Name:Micky Dames Country:Usa

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  about 1 year ago

My Husband has returned home after many months. No one thought that there was hope. My friends and family urged me to move on and get a divorce. Every time I was close to giving up, I did not feel releasing me from my marriage until when my cousin traduced me to Dr. Kaka who helped her when she had problem with her lover. Dr. Kaka made the impossible possible within 48hours after I did all that he told me to do. Anytime I feel myself getting frustrated and offended I always contacted Dr. Kaka for help. Here is his contact e-mail if you need help too; dr.kakasolutiontemple@gmail. com. Nat, USA

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  about 1 year ago
benny  

I am SANDRA from UK and I am 31 years old I am here to thank and share how my life change how Dr Aigbo gave my life a lift,a friend introduced me to him so I contacted him and share my problems with him,i was in a serious relationship with my boy friend but until a day we had some misunderstanding that lead to our breakup, i contacted several spell caster to help me get him back but i they could not help me get him back but they all scam me and took my money away. but at the end of it all my sorrow was later change to joy by Dr Aigbo who cast a reuniting ex spell for me with gurantee. i thought he could not help me cause i was scam by many but i also choose to give him a chance to prove his powers, he told me that my ex boyfriend will call me after 48hrs and i really wait for the day he will cast the spell, i was so suprise when my ex called me after 48hr and ask for forgivenss, i will say that Dr Aigbo is the best spell caster that anyone can boldly contact without any fear cause i have put him to test and he really prove to me that he is not a scam by bringing my ex back to me. so people i will also recommend this great spell caster to you by asking you to contact him through his email address: spiritualhomeofproblem@gmail. com with the help of this man all your problems will be over and your sorrow shall be turn to just just the way i am now. once more please contact him through his email address: spiritualhomeofproblem@gmail. com

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  about 1 year ago

This is a true story about a spell caster I met on the internet that help me to restore back my relationship without any spiritual effect. My lover decided to call a quit to our two years relationship. I was so devastated that i had an accident that left me bedridden. After 9 months of emotional pain and languish, a friend of mine introduced me to Dr. Kaka who helped her. So I told him my problem and did what he instructed me to do, In less than 48hrs i saw wonders, my Lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle... am so happy.. I promised him that I am going to tell people who are still searching for the right spell casters to contact him as I did. Here is his e-mail: dr.kakasolutiontemple@gmail. com. God bless you Dr. Kaka Mary, USA.

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  about 1 year ago
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