If you have been or are in a relationship, you will know that compromising and sacrifice are essential to maintaining a healthy relationship. If you want to get back with your ex boyfriend then you should keep this is mind. Getting back with your ex boyfriend is hardly ever simple, but I am going to give you some advice that will make it a lot easier to make your boyfriend want you back so you can mend your relationship.

First of all, instead of worrying how you can get back together with your ex boyfriend you need to identify the reason the relationship fell apart in the first place so that the tension that caused the split can be minimised and hopefully eliminated. You need to set things right with your ex boyfriend before you can get him back.

So, you want to know how you can get back with your ex boyfriend?

When a breakup occurs, you need to understand that something went wrong in the relationship. If it was your boyfriend’s idea to split up, then it is commonly a result of one of two reasons:

There wasn’t enough of you in the relationship. He got bored.

OR

There was too much of you in the relationship. He felt trapped.

Both of the above reasons will almost always lead to the end of a relationship. If you want to get back with your ex boyfriend, you will need to identify which of the above reasons caused the break up.

Whatever reason it was that caused the breakup, it was most likely something that you did, or didn’t do. Although this is a very blunt way of looking at it, this is generally the truth. The person who broke up with the other did so because of the behaviour of their partner. Your first step is to determine which of the two it was that caused the breakup and change your behaviour so it is no longer a problem.

You are going to need to think carefully about the situation you are in at the moment. Ask yourself what was it that you done that could have possibly led to the break up, and what was it that was your fault and what wasn’t your fault.

Throw the causes that weren’t your fault out the window, there is nothing you can do about them, focus on what you can change. If the major issue was something that was your fault, and something you have control over, then this is good news as it means you can change this and you have a good chance at getting your ex boyfriend back. But you need to make sure that you are ready to change what needs to be changed in order to get back with your ex boyfriend.

Unless you act on getting your ex boyfriend back, it will not happen. Simple knowing and not taking action will not do. I recommend having some sort of overall plan or strategy to work towards if you want to get back with your ex boyfriend.