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So you and your boyfriend have broken up and it’s been a month or so and you find yourself thinking about him more and more. Are you considering trying to get your ex-boyfriend back? If the answer is yes then I have a few suggestions that you might try.

This first suggestion concerns communication, you just can’t chase after him with excessive phone calls, text messaging, emailing. That is one thing that will be sure to make him bolt. The best thing would be time off from each other, gather your thoughts, search your feelings, and really try to come to grips with what you want.

After this soul searching the next step is to try to re-establish contact, if you’ve already had casual contact and it’s been amicable, all the better, that just helps your cause. Stay friendly and try to just have normal conversations, avoid any references to the break-up for now, and become friends again. This will help put him at ease and make him more open to a meeting.

You don’t want to rush right into an out-right date but maybe a casual cup of coffee or something along those lines. This will give you a feel for where his head (and heart) is. This will also give him the same opportunity. If it feels like he is of the same frame of mind as you then you can slowly move forward.

There is one thing that you have to keep in mind and that is the subject of the initial break-up will have to be addressed. But it is the timing and the attitude that is real important here so, BE CAREFUL with this, you don’t want to place blame and be confrontational, that will only serve to put him on the defensive or even worse, make him quickly back off again.

You are not the only one that will be thinking these thoughts, he will be doing the same thing and you don’t know if you both agree on why the break-up happened to begin with. Guys don’t think like women do, we tend to be more analytical and logical. We can sit around for hours not saying a thing and be just as happy as a bug in a rug, and on top of that, we assume that you are just as happy when you’re sitting there wondering “why won’t he talk to me” right?

I’m sure this has happened sometime along the way but this can change. If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back you two are going to have to learn how to talk to each other, I know you’re probably saying to yourself “yeah right” but ladies, we can be trained. It’s just going to take some patience on your part and some willingness on his.

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