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Getting your boyfriend back is no walk in the park, it just does not happen overnight and he rarely has a huge change of heart without something major happening. That is why you should be realistic right now. If you are serious about getting back your boyfriend then you will need to know the truth - and that means the real truth about what he is thinking right now and how you should be reacting to this. There is no point in guessing what is going through his head, you have to rely on male psychology to get you through this tough time. It is worth finding out his real feelings though because it will give you a huge advantage in your 'get boyfriend back' strategy.
Guys rarely say what they mean and they expect you to grasp the what they actually meant when what they said is the exact opposite - confusing right? The points below will help you to decipher the truth behind his feelings and guide you in how to behave after the break up to make him see you in the best possible light. By seeing into the male psyche you will have a huge advantage here and be able to get your boyfriend back.
What He Really Wants After The Break Up
To Be Left Alone -
When your boyfriend dumps you he does not expect you to be there in the same way as you were before. Although every fiber of your being is telling you to contact him and still be part of his life, you have to fight this urge and nip it in the bud as soon as you can. He wants time to think about what has happened and work out what he really wants in his head.
Talking to you and being around you right now will be extremely awkward for him, he does not want to have to hurt you further by intentionally avoiding you. This is what he secretly fears - that you will not get the message and start stalking him, bumping into him by 'accident' and trying to get him on side again. He will only pity you if you do this and think that you are desperate - a highly unattractive quality.
To Not Have To Explain Why He Dumped You -
Guys will want to get out of there as quickly as possible after they drop the bombshell that they want to end things. He will not want to explain all the reasons why he wants to move on or hurt you further by disseminating your character. He wants an easy escape route, not one that is awkward and filled with anger and aggression. Men like to do things simply and quickly and to leave as little mess behind as possible - you must let him do this.
He may not want to tell you the real truth why he dumped you and you have to accept what he says at face value. There is nothing more that you can do right now to make him divulge the truth. The more you push him for answers, the more he will resent you and he will end up saying hurtful things that will upset you even more.
No Drama Or Guilt Trips -
Now here is something that will really irk him and reaffirm his decision to break up with you in the first place. You do not want to reinforce his decision to leave you, you want to make him regret it. Guilt trips are an awful way to go about salvaging a relationship, they may work temporarily, but you will only end up making him resent you and the relationship will crash and burn eventually anyway.
He will be expecting guilt trips from you and pleading behaviour. He has probably already formulated responses in his head to counter your pleas. Guys view this type of behaviour from girls as needy and pathetic, you do not want to make him think of you as a bunny boiler. Walking away from the situation with your head held high will only make him think of you in positive terms. When you do not give him what he expects he will be forced to reconsider his decision - reverse psychology works wonders!
Acceptance From You -
He wants to get on with his life and deal with the end of your relationship and he wants you to do that too. He knows that this won't be easy for you and you will probably put up a fight, but you have to at least accept that things are over for now. If you appear to be lying to yourself or not handling the situation with dignity, he will feel uneasy and want to avoid you even more.
What you have to do right now is to accept that your old relationship is over. You are not going to get that back, but you can look forward to a new relationship that is even better than the first if you play your cards right. By accepting his decision you are showing him that you are mature and have self respect. This is highly attractive to men. You don't have to just accept things and walk away though, this is just an outward facade that you are giving off to him and the world. This is what you have to do to get him back.
How To Use This Information To Your Advantage
You must always have at the forefront of your mind how he views the actions that you take. From a female perspective they might appear effective, but when used on the male species they can be counter-productive. Women are always advised to go with their instincts and trust their guts, this may be true most of the time, but not in break up situations when your emotions are volatile. You will never be able to think clearly and your instincts will be telling you to do all of the wrong things.
Your Next Steps
This is just the basics of getting a boyfriend back, there is a lot more that you need to understand before you can be successful. There are some effective get him back techniques that you should be implementing right now, these will render him weak at the knees for you again and make him want you back. You have to be aware of more break up mistakes that women make though to make sure that you are not doing anything detrimental or pushing him away further.
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