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If you are asking yourself “Can I get my Ex back” then chances are that the split wasn’t as life ending as you first thought. Now you have to hope your partner feels the same as you do. You probably both said or did some hurtful things to one another…that’s ok…but now is time for a sincere and heartfelt apology. Apologizing and meaning it is a great first step.

If you can bring yourself to swallow some pride and really let your ex know that you’re serious about trying to work things out then there’s a good chance the two of you can mend your fences. If your first approach doesn’t work, don’t quit, just try another tactic until you find something that does work.

Don’t just try generic fixes…use your imagination; put yourself in their place… give something of yourself, something from the heart. Try sending a card that you yourself wrote…maybe a bouquet you put together yourself…you know…something from YOU. One of the biggest grips that women have is that men today just aren’t very thoughtful or caring.

So you might want to reflect back and ask yourself “Was I thoughtful…did I show her I cared?” If the answer is no then you’ll want to take steps to change that. That would be another positive step in trying to get your ex back. Every positive step you take brings you one step closer to what you are trying to achieve.

When you first started your relationship you probably did the thoughtful things, right? So if she doesn’t believe you at first just be patient…keep at it…let her know it’s different this time and that you’re not taking anything for granted. When she sees that you are sincere she’ll be more open to giving you a second chance.

If you decide to date other women you had better be careful with that one. An occasional date is one thing and might serve to get her to wishing she had you back, but if you go too far it almost assuredly will blow up in your face.

If you have been apart long enough for her to have another boyfriend and you are wondering if you can still “get my ex back” well my friend the chances are not in your favor I’m sorry to say, but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible. You have to make her realize that you are the better choice for her. You don’t do that by hounding her or by seeming desperate or needy. Let her know you’re there, you’re doing fine, you’re confident and let nature take its course.

Quite frankly, when my baby picked up and left me I just didn’t think I was going to make it but a friend of mine showed me how to get my ex back.

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