Relationship break ups are such a hassle. Even when both parties agree they need a break, there are still hurt feelings and problems of some sort. Whatever happened, the damage was done and now you want to know how to get your boyfriend back.

Are you trying to get him back by begging, pleading, crying, calling and texting him constantly, or even resorting to ‘stalking’ him? I hope not! Because I am willing to bet none of those things are working out well for you. I do have some good news, though. There is a better way!

First off, I would like you to be realistic and very honest with yourself. Do you really have a chance to get your boyfriend back? You need to be able to face facts and accept that the two of you may not ever get back with each other. Most relationships can be worked out, but don’t automatically assume yours can. Since you are reading this, I bet that whatever you’ve been doing isn’t working well at all.

Second thing is, you need to take some time and really take a long hard look at the relationship. Is it really what is best for you to be in this relationship? Is it healthy for you? Quit wasting time calling him and acting all desperate and just take a break so you can concentrate on fixing the relationship. Oh, and ‘accidentally’ bumping into him isn’t allowed either.

You are going to need to use a little psychology in the next part of your campaign to get your boyfriend back. What you really want to do is to let him come to the conclusion that you are the kind of person he wants to be connected with, this is much better than trying to convince him to get back with you. The more pushy you are, the more he will pull away from you.

So what do you do while you are waiting for him to figure things out? You need to take good care of yourself! Make sure you eat well and exercise regularly. Get out and have some fun with your friends and have a great time. Mellow out your moods towards him and just relax knowing you’re doing what you can to get him back.

After some time has gone by, he will probably start wondering what you are doing because he hasn’t heard from you. If you’ve been taking care of yourself and hanging with your friends, he has probably heard all about it. Especially if you live in a small town! He may call just to chat and do some detective work on what you have been doing.

At this point don’t blow it by being needy or clingy. Both are major turn offs! Just be yourself. You may want to suggest that the two of you meet someplace casual for a face-to-face talk. Again, don’t start campaigning for the two of you to get back together, if it’s meant to be it will happen. I hope these tips will help you figure out how to get your boyfriend back.