So you want to get your ex back but your friends are telling you to give up on getting back the loser. They think they understand the pain that you are going through but they don’t. In fact, they continue to make matters worse as you struggle to be strong during this difficult time but they continue to give you bad advice.

I’m sure some of your friends go as far as reminding you about all of the bad times that you and your ex had. To your friends it probably makes very little sense for you to get back together with your ex. Unfortunately, your heart and your head want to restore your broken relationship. So my suggestion is that take your friends advice with a grain of salt, and continue to fight to get your ex back.

Tips To Ignore Your Friends Politely

First, before I continue to advise about ignoring your friends I must confess something. If for any reason you have been in an abusive relationship, I agree with your friends. I could not in good conscience recommend that you return to a situation that puts your life at risk. Love comes in a variety of ways but none of them in the form of abuse. If that was the case in your relationship, please seek professional counseling before you try to get your ex back.

Now, if your friends are giving you grief about restoring your relationship, they probably have been doing things to keep you from working on getting your ex back. Here are some ways to maintain a good relationship with them while pursuing your dream.

• Don’t defend your ex – Sometimes your friends will initiate negative conversations about your ex and try to fuel your fire. If they really care about you there heart is in the right place. What you should do is change the conversation when it starts going in that direction. Just say that you don’t want to talk about your ex.

• Limit your conversations via social media i.e., Facebook and Twitter. Posting messages online can be dangerous due to the impulsive nature. You might type something and send it before you have had a chance to edit it. Once it’s out there, you can’t take it back. Don’t get involved with posting messages about you want to get your ex back or that you hate your ex for leaving you.

Tips To Help Your Get Your Ex Back

Please note that your friends can help you get through this difficult time. However, you just need to limit the time you hang around the really negative friends who try their best to keep you from getting back together with your ex.

Getting Your Ex Back Tips

1. Keep your distance if you aren’t ready to work on getting back together. If you aren’t mentally or emotionally ready to restore your broken relationship you might make matters worse. Wait until you are ready. 2. Prepare for the encounters that you need to have. Treat getting back your ex like you would prepare for a future job interview. You wouldn’t or shouldn’t just show up unprepared. 3. Don’t let fear dictate your steps. It can be scary thinking about never getting your ex back. This might lead you to act hastily and blow any chance you might have to get your ex back.

Please pay attention to this one key point. If you believe that your relationship should be and can be restored, you are probably closer to getting back together than you think. Don’t let others convince you otherwise. You can get your ex back.

Finally, I would like to encourage you to take a deep breath, manage your stress and use wisdom and discernment to restore your relationship and remember, there is more helpful advice that you can follow to help get back an ex love.