First of all don't put all the blame on him. Think about your own mistakes. Were there any problems that occurred because of you, because of your mistakes, your faults? You need to judge yourself in the first place and then your better half. Maybe there were things that annoyed him which you did and therefore, he decided to break up. Try to talk to him, discuss the problems that you’ve faced throughout the relationship, be calm, do not shout at him or yell out of anger, even if you’re right, at what you’re saying; try to understand him, his complaints.

Maturity is a great characteristic in woman’s personality; for you need to be mature in order to be able to face the difficulties; you ought to be understanding, giving and forgiving of course. Only then you will be able to solve your problems and get back together with your ex boyfriend.

Second: do not annoy him. Give him the time that he needs to think about your past relationship and the space of course that he needs through this process. Do not pressurize him, do not try to make him jealous by flirting with other guys, just to get his attention because that would make him upset and this would give you a lesser chance, for sure, to get your ex boyfriend back.

Third: figure out what went wrong. You should start questioning yourself in the first place. Were you or was him caused the break-up? Think about the arguments and fights that you’ve had. Were you too clingy? Did you become possessive? Or were you always demanding or asking things from him? You should examine yourself intensely for then you’ll figure out whether there were real reasons for him to break-up with you. List the causes that led the relationship to this end.

Fourth: do not beg for a second round. This would make you look like a desperate little creature. Do not be very miserable. Stalking him to wherever he goes or calling him 7/24 on the phone would only make him ignore you even more. It is a fact; men hate desperate women. They only pity them and show no indulgence in doing so. Do not call his family or friends and ask how he’s doing. Do not go to his usual places for you’ll feel awful when you see him until you get over this crucial stage.

Fifth: bring out the best in you. Always be yourself. Be the same women that he used to know; that he fell in love with. The woman that he falls for since the day you met. This could re-bring up the best qualities within you that he loved and admired. These qualities/characteristics will be your most powerful support to get your ex boyfriend back.

“Hoping” that you can get your ex boyfriend back is quite reasonable and fair, however, great expectations can give you false assurance and in the end you may get extremely disappointed. This would only worsen the pain that you already feel. Instead of this, show him that you love him, that you care for this relationship and make him understand that everything will be better this time.