Are you struggling from a failed relationship? You both love each other so much, but he suddenly gave up? Was your relationship perfect then, suddenly everything has changed? Are you just going to give up and do nothing? Or you want to start over and get your ex boyfriend back? Then control your emotions for a while. Try to read what I have to say, let me help you and let's start to work for our aim.

First, analyze yourself and mistakes you think that affected your relationship. What went wrong? Then, it's time to learn to accept it and change what needs to improve. Start correcting the things you need change in your now. Be true to yourself, no matter how it hurts. This is the way to focus on to get your ex boyfriend back.

It is better having a new appearance by altering your physical appearance. It doesn't really mean that you don't look good. It's just the most evident change anyone can notice about a person. You need to make sure that your ex boyfriend will notice the changes right away, and that is the best way to catch his attention. Let him see a NEW YOU. Remember, men are more visual than women. This is a sure way to get your ex boyfriend back.

• Change your hairstyle.

• Change the outfit you usually wear, not just the style but the colors as well... It is good if you wear bright colors, because this will make you look vibrant.

• Any change in your appearance aims not only to win back that attraction from your ex boyfriend, but other men, as well.

Have a new activity or hobby. Make sure this is something that you would enjoy and would interest you a lot. And take your mind of your ex boyfriend. Why do we need to do this? Being able to enjoy life would show in your aura. So the next time your ex boyfriend will see you, the changes in you will not only something physical with a new hobby and activity but you will look more confident. Now what is the reason for your confidence? For sure, the change in your appearance and personality will also be noticed by other men. The knowledge that you can still attract other men will give you the confidence to continue to apply your plan to get your ex.

Now that, you have started to attract other men, you can start improving your social life. You can start going out with friends or even in casual dates. This would complete the new you.

• New physical appearance

• New confident and vibrant personality

• A new social life that would make your ex boyfriend realize you have moved on.

So as, not to make your efforts so futile, make sure you were able to find ways to make your ex boyfriend aware of these changes in your. You can either "accidentally" see common friends whom you know will send him the news. You can also use social media sites, which your boyfriend is into. Or make sure your activities and social life are within your ex boyfriend's circle. Remember, getting his attention is the next step to get your ex boyfriend back.

When you start socializing, make sure you don't overdo it. You don't want to turn him off. Be cool and friendly, just enough to show him that other men have started to take an interest in you and you’re not overly eager to go out with them. Men will always be men, once they see a competition they would always take up the challenge. Men love to win. With this development, you are already sure you will get your ex boyfriend back.

Last minute reminders: when your ex boyfriend starts showing interest don't show too much enthusiasm when accepting his invitation to go out with him. Make sure to keep your composure and act as cool as possible, this would heat up the challenge he feels at the moment. During your "date", be sweet yet keep that aura of confidence. This will keep him interested. When you get your ex boyfriend back, don’t slack back to your old self. Maintain that aura of confidence to keep him in interested.