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Getting Back Together With Your Ex
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You are just getting home from a night out with the third guy you’ve tried to date since breaking up with your ex. And what’s on your mind? Your ex. Why are you thinking about him again? Does it seem like the more you try to move on the more you end up thinking about him?

If you can’t seem to get him out of your head then maybe you’re thinking about rekindling the relationship. If the answer is yes, then you’re probably wondering how to go about doing this…right? Well it won’t be the easiest thing to accomplish, but it can be done. If you want to get your ex back I have five things you might want to try. Nothing is a guarantee but it’s worth a shot.

First and foremost you have stop seeing the other guys…put them out of your head and set your sights back on your ex. You have to have the proper mindset if you’re really going to do this. Cut the other guys off completely. Next thing is to keep your composure…don’t chase him or try to constantly try to contact him.You can’t let him know that what you really want is to get him back…at least not right away.

He will respect and admire you so much more if you conduct yourself in a mature and confident manner. Third, put together a list about his good points and spend some time really thinking about it. Weigh the good against the bad then try to concentrate on the good. The bad points can be worked on and changed. If there is one thing in this life that is certain…it is change.

Next, when you both have agreed to see each other again you’ll have to change things up. Don’t fall back into the old habits that caused the breakup to begin with. Try to find something that both of you can get into. Go to new places, make new friends. If you don’t break the old patterns it WILL come back to haunt you both and you’ll more than likely have a repeat of your breakup… and you don’t want that do you?

And last but not least…the two of you need to make a plan…a life plan. The both of you need to sit down and figure out what the both of you really want out of life and agree that’s what you’re going to work toward. Just remember that there is no such thing as a perfect marriage and there will be ups and downs. The thing to keep in mind is to find the middle ground…compromise…it’s a must if any relationship is going to work.


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