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Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back: What To Do To Get Ex Back
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After a breakup, it is just normal to want and yearn more for your ex. However even if you are off searching for what to do to get ex back, what can only work surely are the things you should do to not push him further away.

On Communication

By now, you probably think that it’s best to send him an SMS or IM to let him know that it’s best if you two make up sooner. However, this is a bad idea because seeming to be too clingy will only make him avoid you. There is really no fool-proof list of what to say to get ex back or what to write to get ex back. Being too hurt and still heartbroken can only tempt you to self pity and say or write things that might come off as desperate. Your guy might perceive this as scary and may even freak him out. So instead of trying to contact him, give him the time he needs.

On Personal Contact

Staying away from your phone or messenger is hard, especially if you are dying to get in touch with your ex. However, it doesn’t stop there as it is also best if you give him enough space. Avoid any personal contact so try to stay away from places you two always frequent. If you know where he usually hangs out, do not lead yourself there. If you are with friends who want to visit a certain restaurant which you know is your ex boyfriend’s go-to diner, suggest other food spots. Keeping a distance from him will not only save you the tension and anxiety, but will also save tears.

On Mutual Friends

If you and your ex have been dating for quite some time, it is highly possible that you have already gained a few mutual friends. Although you are longing to be around friends who will comfort you, it is best to not run to your mutual friends as you may only spill the gist of your side of the story. This will only put your mutual friends in a bad position as you will unconsciously force them to take sides.

On Dating

It is only natural that after keeping a distance with your ex for quite some time, you find yourself interested in dating others. However, keep in mind to not date one of your ex’s friends. This will not only put you in a bad light, but will also put your date into trouble. It is also best if you don’t date anyone seriously. You might have a hard time taking your ex back if you are already going stready with someone.

On Connecting Back

When several weeks or even months have passed, you can probably expect an SMS or IM from your ex. If not, you can already try getting in touch with him but remember to do it casually though. Do not ever start connecting with him showing off hints that you are longing for your ex. Be cool and friendly about it without opening up the past. What you want to do now is to start a friendship and wait if it will blossom into a relationship like the last time. Do not rush and take him back quickly as this may only entail an easy breakup for the second time.

So instead of asking questions, “what should I do to get ex back” or “what to do to get ex back fast,” know the things you should not do to avoid breaking your chances of being with him sooner or later.


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  about 6 years ago
Greg15  

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  about 7 years ago
julia6  

i told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. but all of a sudden he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. i did cry but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. but i never understand why he dont want to stay with me. but before he left he told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc but he just want to walk away from my life. the pain was awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. he deleted my numbers but i never let go of him. i wanted him back but he has made up his mind so i had no choice but to look for a way to get him back so what i did was to look for a spell caster to help me get back my lover fast as possible, when i came across prophetharry@ymail. com, so he did a love spell for me and the spell came out perfect, my lover reconciled with me and we came back together and since then we have been in peace and the lover is flowing perfectly julie

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  about 7 years ago
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