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Heal Your Broken Heart – Getting Over Your Broken Heart
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Heal Your Broken Heart – Getting Over Your Broken Heart

Can you really heal your broken heart? Yes, but unfortunately, you are in so much pain that getting over your broken heart seem impossible. You are devastated by the news and you just can’t believe it is over. Getting over your broken heart is by far the worst emotional trauma you will ever suffer. There is good news though, as hard as it is to believe today, in time you will heal your broken heart.

“Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they're supposed to help you discover who you are.” Bernice Johnson Reagon

If you are to come out the other end of this breakup successfully, then you must do the following….

You must at least for now realize it is real and it just might truly be over. Getting over your broken heart will not be easy, but many before you have done it and you too can heal your broken heart. The best thing you can do now is to try to focus on positive things while doing the things you love. Exercise is you best friend right now because of the feel good endorphins it releases.

You must let the pain out. You must express yourself; heal your broken heart by screaming out the pain. Don’t let it all get bottled up. Listen to a love song and just let it all out and cry. This letting it out frees you from the pain, you must let it out.

You must seek help. Confide in friends and family. Best friends and family can really help you to cope and to remind you that they too love you. Please be aware that some will offer negative or vengeful advice, this will not heal your broken heart. What you need now are words of encouragement and a positive outlook for the future. Many couples do get back together, so don’t burn any bridges seeking revenge. I understand you are in pain, but keep your dignity intact. Usually they are also confused about their feelings and are also in pain.

You must separate you from what use to be us. Remember you? Don’t let this broken heart be the demise of you, rather the emergence of a new you. You can heal your broken heart and grow from this experience. You will find new strength and confidence as the days go by and you must learn to love yourself so someone else can love you.

You must now move on past the pain. It’s still there, but it is now only a flicker of a flame. You now believe it is possible to heal your broken heart, and day by day you are getting further and further from the pain. You can finally accept that you will recover and you will love again. You will find that someone that is deserving of your heart and will be capable of loving another.

You will in time be able to heal your broken heart, just be patient. Time is your best friend, so don’t rush it, you will get there when you get there. Once you have sifted and sorted through all the pain, you will eventually be able to let it go and go find or get back the love of your life! You can do it; most of us are living proof.


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Very good advice and congratulations are in order.

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  about 7 years ago

Good advice!

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