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So, you cheated and had a fling on the side…while your girlfriend was wondering why you were so distant. She found out that you were having an affair and dumped you. Now, what are you going to do?

Well, ask yourself if you want 2 get your girl back. It’s not unusual that couples break up and get back together. Getting your ex back is not as hard as you may think. After all both of you loved each other, we just have to rekindle that love. So here are a few interesting secrets you can use 2 get your girl back.

Maintain honesty

Since you’re responsible for the break up it is you who should initiate the making up process. Be honest with her. Tell her exactly why things happened the way they did. Take the blame for your actions and make sure you don’t blame her for any reason.

Lay down all the cards on the table. That will help clear the air a little bit. If she just wants to be left alone after you talked; then just give her some time and space…she’ll be back. There is no point in trying to get your ex back by force, it doesn’t work that way.

Try and communicate

Give her some time to heal. At this point she has a lot going on through her head. Remember that her heart is bruised and a woman loses her self confidence under these circumstances. So give her time to come to terms with the situation; then pursue her.

Tell her that you’re unable to live without her, but don’t sound too desperate. Woo her by sending flowers anonymously to her work place that will get her guessing. If she still doesn’t respond ask your friends to arrange a meeting. This will help you 2 get your girl back.

Time to be Romantic

A lot of women love romance so be Mr. Romance, just do it in style. Don’t be desperate or aggressive. Show her that you’re a changed man and that she is the only one that matters. That will make her heart melt.

Don’t show up on her doorstep drunk. Behave in a mature manner. Even if she is hanging out with another guy, don’t behave like a jealous ex boyfriend. Keep your cool and woo her. This is a sure way 2 get your girl back.

Remind her of all the wonderful days and nights both of you spent together. Memories of passion will stimulate her, this will greatly help 2 get your girl back.


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