Have you ever asked yourself how can I fix my relationship? Most of us have and finding that answer is not the easiest thing to do. One thing that you have to keep in mind is that every situation is different...no two people's problems are identical and there is no MAGIC one size fits all.

That being said...there are some basic rules that should be followed. Once the break-up has occurred, a period of non-communication is recommended. This gives the both of you a chance to rewind and reflect on what and where things went wrong. Another thing to consider is what you think went wrong and what she thinks went wrong may be two completely different things.

Now a period of non-communication is important BUT, you don't want it to be too long...if it is...you may grow too far apart. If while you're separated you miss her and still love her then it is worth the effort to take the steps to get your relationship back together again.

DON'T play games with each other...this is one of the most damaging things either of you can do. Lying and playing games is manipulative and will have nothing but negative results. If you make your mate believe that you're in love with someone else for the sake of making them jealous...it MIGHT work...but more often then not...it backfires.

DON'T be cruel or vindictive...this will only serve to make matters worse and make the other think that this break-up was for the best...and if your plan is to fix your relationship then that is last thing you want them thinking...Right? What both of you MUST not do is to argue and bicker...if you see your meeting headed for confrontation then you must do everything in your power to diffuse the situation.

Not only do you not want confrontations...but you want your Ex to want to spend time with you again...think back to what drew the two of you together to begin with. Be yourself...that obviously had something to do with your initial attraction to each other...Right? Do things you didn't do before...be thoughtful, consider her feelings, learn to Listen That's a big one.

Try prying yourself away from sportscenter and take her to dinner and a movie...or a romantic walk. Guys...one thing you better get through your heads is that women want to be romanced. But this is only the start of things...your renewed relationship will need constant nurturing and attention if it is to flourish. If not...you will find yourself right back where you started and I am pretty sure that's not what you want. These suggestions are just the tip of the iceberg if you want to fix your relationship.