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How Can I Make My Ex Boyfriend Want Me Back?
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How Can I Make My Ex Boyfriend Want Me Back?

If you want to get your ex boyfriend to want you back, you must ready to do a few things. This article attempts to give you some insight into the psychology of the male and what he actually thinks about you after you have broken up with him.

When you attempt to make your ex-boyfriend want you back again, many a time it feels like you are hitting a roadblock. Most of the things women usually do after a break-up serves to drive the boyfriend farther away. They end up doing exactly the opposite of what they should actually be attempting in the first place. Well, understand that it is not your fault; no school lessons ever taught you how to keep your man. These are lessons learnt over time and the different life experiences.

However, some women should be appreciated for the skill that they exhibit in being able to retain the man they like. It seems that maintaining long-term relationships come easy for them. This is possible for you also provided you understand what men want and what gets them going. If you do not know about these things yet, it is a good idea to learn a few things before you attempt to get him to want you back. This article is going to give you some lessons in this area.

Lesson 1 - Stay Away From Him and He Will Want You More

Looks like a wrong idea, but it works! Probably the fastest and most effective way to incite desire in him is by staying away from him for a while. This may be nearly impossible if you share the same workspace or if you attend classes together. In such a case, another tactic can be tried. Try to avoid looking at him and try not to contact him for anything that you did in the earlier times. Your ex-boyfriend is constantly looking for signals from you that you still have it for him. Any kind of interest, however remote, will serve boost his male ego.

The very fact that you are not initiating any contact catches him by surprise. This is the first secret that you have unraveled. He still wants you to grab his attention and chase after him. This sudden I-do-not-care-about-you attitude will definitely make him wonder and throw him into a state of shock. He will actually start worrying whether you liked him in the first place. Do not worry about having treated him cruelly; this would only set his mind racing and make him have that same interest that he once had for you. Making your ex boyfriend want you back relies on this strategy.

At this point be careful to note that you should not be rude to him under any circumstances. If he wants to strike a conversation with you, be polite and open but refrain from asking any questions. Try to hold shorter conversations and answer any questions that he may ask you. Acting a little busy or trying to impress upon him that you have elsewhere to go is very helpful in this kind of a situation. Ensure that you are nice and encouraging to him at all times. Be careful not to cut off all streams of communication. He may start to get a feeling that you are unapproachable.

Lesson 2 - Create An Aura of Mystery Around Yourself and He Will Want You More

The very fact that he fell for you should tell you that you were different compared to the rest. Reminiscing about the good times that the two of you enjoyed will help you recollect what it was that he liked about you. Try to rediscover those qualities and re-invent yourself. Pick out an old hobby and get busy with it once again. Or try find out a new pastime that will keep your mind engaged. He will notice a change in you soon enough. An idle mind can keep you obsessed about him, make you chase him, and make you do many other foolish acts that will work to lower the respect and regard that he has for you.

Being elusive does not necessarily mean that you have to be rude to him. That you are busy and working to a tight schedule is all what you need to show him. Build an aura of mystery around you, it works wonders. Decide to stay off from all social networking sites. He would most probably be checking your FaceBook account to see what you are up to. The correct way to act now is to try and keep some personal and information about your life away from him. He need not know everything that is happening currently in your life. After all, it was he who decided to walk away from you! If you do wish to get him back then this is a proven method to adopt.

Updating your social profiles regularly will definitely give out too much information as to what you are up to now. He may just not feel like contacting you to find out what you are currently doing. He now knows everything about your present life! He does not miss you much, what with your constant presence in the virtual world. If you slip out of his radar temporarily, there are greater chances that he will be badly wanting to establish contact with you.

What to Do Next

These are only two simple lessons that will make him want you again. However, this is just the beginning. There are many more things that should be done by you to get him to chase you again. The chances of getting him back are better if you are sure that he still likes you. Here, it is important that you observe, read between the lines, and look out for signals. These signals play a big part in helping you understand what he currently feels about you and where you stand in this whole exercise. You can then take appropriate actions depending on how he responds. Though it means developing some patience over a period of time, it is still worth it to find out what you mean to him now.


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