Your boyfriend pulling away from you can be such a harrowing experience. This is because in one way or the other he had become part of your life and losing him will impact negatively in your life system.

Like some other things in life, relationships are built up--and sometimes are broken down as well. In a worst case scenario that your boyfriend slips from your hands, you need to employ strategies to win him back.

By observing the following steps accordingly, you can be sure of getting him back as soon as possible.

Tip# 1. First things first:

Sit down, relax, and absorb the situation. Instead of running after him, texting him, calling him day and night, or trying to hook up through any of his relatives, take some time to relax and digest the situation. Running up and down will make you do things in haste. When you sit down and relax, you will see things as they are and make the correct decision. A peaceful mind is key to winning your boyfriend back.

Tip# 2. Make cocoa out of your melting chocolate:

There is always a better side of doing something; a solution to every problem. When your boy friend pulls out from you, it's like your chocolate bar is melting.

You can make cocoa out of melting chocolate! Instead of watching things going from bad to worse, create something good out of the bad situation.

Brainstorm; think of the first words you want to tell him, reorganize your way of reasoning, and be the person he first fell in love with.

Tip# 3. Attract him:

Psychology reveals that men are attracted by what they see.

Use this to your advantage.

You have been in a relationship with this man so you at least know his taste and preferences.

Everyone likes being attracted to something better, so create some nice attraction and you'll see him back. Take your modesty to the next level don't seem like you're not moving on.

Carry on with your normal duties of life: go to work, attend social avenues and make life go on as usual. By this he will see you as a focused person with a specific direction and principles.

If you have undergone the experience of losing a boyfriend, and you are struggling on how to win him back, you need not worry.

Here is your plan B. You just need to apply the steps shown above and with a little more confidence; you can win your boyfriend back.