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How Do You Get Your Boyfriend Back? Get Inside His Head
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How Do You Get Your Boyfriend Back? Get Inside His Head

Learn exactly how to get your boyfriend back by understanding the male psyche and getting inside his head. You will discover what he thinks about you after the break up and what you have been doing wrong up until now.

Understand The Male Psyche To Get Your Boyfriend Back

The truth is that most women do the exact opposite of what they should be doing when they are trying to get their boyfriends back. This is through no fault of their own, it is merely because they do not fully grasp the complexity of the male mind and subsequently make the wrong moves based on false presumptions.

What you have to do instead is to take a step back and learn a little about the differences between men and women in relationships and what they both want from them. You may like a guy who is passionate, in touch with his feelings and talks a lot. This may not be what a guy wants though.

Think about how emotional and overly talkative behaviour can seem to a guy for a minute. It can prove a bone of contention when women are constantly dramatic and needy in a relationship and the same applies to the period after a break up. Maybe one of the reasons why he broke up with you in the first place was because you were too high maintenance. Of course you shouldn't be changing who you are to please any man, but you must realise the affects that your behaviour can have on your relationship and how it can damage your chances of getting him back. You must realise this immediately as it is the first step in winning back your boyfriend's love for you.

Maintain Your Composure If You Want To Get Your Boyfriend Back

When you act desperate after your break up or behave in a way that is childish he will not see you in a positive light. This is not what you want to happen under any circumstances as it will end up pushing him further and further away from you. Every time you say something angry or spiteful to your ex boyfriend to hurt him you will only be hurting yourself instead. He will remember everything that comes out of your mouth at this time because he is more sensitive to what you say after your break up.

Instead you want to accept the break up and act as if you are fine with it all. Of course this is the opposite of what you want to do, you may even think that this makes no sense. However, you have to understand the way that a guy thinks after he dumped you to appreciate how effective this step is.

When a guy dumps you he will expect you to behave in a certain way, in fact he will want you to because it strokes his ego and gives him power. You see, he thinks that you will put up a fight and plead for him to take you back. At the very least he will expect you to still be interested in him and want to be friends. This is the perfect scenario for him as he knows instinctively that you still love him and he can get you back any time he chooses.

When you accept the break up in a mature manner and walk away he will not know how to react. This will totally throw him off guard and he will start to feel vulnerable and question whether he made the right decision to break up with you. It also puts the control back in your direction as it is up to him to make the next move if he doesn't want to lose you for good. He will start to panic at the thought that you are no longer interested in him and he will then fight to regain your attention. Clever eh?

Do Not Beg Him To Give It Another Try

In the same way, begging and pleading for him to reconsider his decision is a definite no no. Not only will it make him think that you are pathetic and unstable, it will be making him feel guilty about breaking up with you. Guys hate guilt trips and they can quickly lead to resentment and anger. Even if he did take you back out of pity, the relationship would be based on lies and it would ultimately fail anyway. If you have any kind of self respect for yourself you will not want this kind of relationship as it is false.

You have to start thinking about the male perspective on your break up as this will give you huge power in getting back your boyfriend. When you start to think like a guy you will be able to anticipate his next steps and counter them with effective and surprising techniques of your own. This will reignite his interest in you quickly and make him be the one who ends up chasing you.

Your Next Step

We have touched upon the first step in how to get back your boyfriend, but you need to understand a few more things before you can make it happen. First of all, you have to avoid these break up mistakes at all costs. If you find yourself doing any of these things you must stop right now before you do any irreparable damage. The next step after that is to cut contact with him. To understand the powerfulness of this strategy you have to discover what no contact does to him and how it can help you get him back. If you manage to pull of the no contact phase properly you will be able to make him chase you and want you back!


Street Talk

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  about 4 years ago

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