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How Do You Get Your Boyfriend Back If He Has A New Girlfriend?
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How Do You Get Your Boyfriend Back If He Has A New Girlfriend?

The moment that the realisation dawns on you that your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, the bottom falls out of your world. You did not see this coming and even if you did foresee it happening, it was way down the line when you had hopefully moved on too. It seems so fast, so heartless. Why is he moving on so quickly and why does he not seem to care how it will affect you?

These are valid questions that you want answered and the only person that can do that for you is your ex boyfriend. However, going down this route could ultimately spell disaster for you if you are hoping to get back together with him in the future. It is vital that you control your curiosity at this point and try to take a step back and see the situation for what it is - a rebound perhaps?

Possible Reasons Why He Has A New Girlfriend

Not that every single new relationship is a rebound, not at all. You have to examine your personal situation closely and determine if this could be possible. Did your ex boyfriend just seem to get a new girlfriend immediately? Is he flaunting her in front of you, putting up pictures of them on Facebook together? Did you break up with him?

If you answered yes to all of these questions then there is a good chance that your ex boyfriend is in a rebound relationship because he has a point to prove - not only to you, but to himself too. He is most likely still wounded from your bad break up and is lashing out at you the only way he knows how - he wants to make you jealous. Did you even consider that he is trying to hurt you the same way that you hurt him? He is probably doing a good job of it too because you are a lot more upset than you imagined you would be, even if you were the one that broke up with him.

Maybe revenge isn't the root cause of this rebound relationship at all. Maybe he broke up with you and is lonely and desperately trying to fill the void with anyone he can get. He can't come crawling back to you after hurting you do terribly, his male pride will not allow it. So instead he is hoping that he will find someone that will take away the sting and regret he feels for losing you.

Whatever the reason for your ex boyfriend having a new girlfriend, there are things that you can do about it. Nip it in the bud before it flourishes into something more long-term and you will be in a much better position to get him back. There are techniques and psychological methods that you can employ to achieve this goal, but you have to use them at the right time and in the right way for them to be effective.

The Good News

You have probably heard that rebound relationships never work more than once in your life. This saying in usually correct, in most of the cases anyway, and there are reasons for that. You see, when you and your boyfriend broke up his feelings for you did not suddenly die overnight - humans just don't work like that. Even if he seems cold, distant and cruel, it is usually a guise to hide how he is really feelings. You can rest assured that there are lots of unresolved feelings there, no matter how much he tries to hide them by getting a new girlfriend.

This ultimately spells disaster for his new relationship because he hasn't fully moved on. He may kid himself that he is ready, but he will be continually comparing you and this new girl and she is more than likely not going to measure up to you and the history that you have together. When the honeymoon phase of their relationship wears off he will soon see the error of his ways and be pining for what you had together. This will only happen though if you manage to maintain a positive image in his eyes. Therefore you should NOT make any of the common mistakes that women tend to make in your situation. This is crucial if you want to get him back.

Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs

Never go marching up to him demanding answers about why he has a new girlfriend - As tough as it may sound, you do not have a say in his life anymore - he doesn't have to answer to you and can see whomever he likes. Sounds tough I know, no one is saying that you have to like it or give him a congratulations card, pat him on the back and wish him well. Being overly happy about his new relationship will smack of insincerity to him, so avoid this error in judgement too.

Don't Act Jealous - This is an obvious one but unfortunately it is the easiest mistake to commit. You will be fuming with him and her. Wanting to wipe the happy grins off their faces is a natural part of the process, but letting him see this jealous and bitter side to you will only render you pathetic and childish in his eyes. Please do not pour spiteful opinions in his ear or rant on about how unfair it is of him to do this to you - it just won't was with him. Instead it will make him glad that you are not his girlfriend anymore and make him pull away.

Don't Plead Or Act Emotional - The last thing that your ex boyfriend wants to deal with is an erratic and emotional wreck. It will make him feel uncomfortable and seriously lower his opinion of you. Remember that you are trying to make him see you in a positive and mature light. Begging him to leave her and take you back is pathetic and no one wants to get their ex boyfriend back based on guilt trips. You want him to WANT you back, that is the only way that a new relationship with him will last. Have some self respect for yourself and stay away from him if you cannot keep your emotions in check.

Your Next Steps

Of course these are only some of the mistakes that you should avoid making when your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend. There are plenty more break up mistakes to stay clear of if you want to speed up the reconciliation process between you both. On top of that you will need to understand some key male psychological techniques to make him want you back. There are ways that you can take his mind off her and back onto you behind the scenes. The best thing about these methods is that he doesn't even realise that you are doing anything!


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karila  

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  about 6 years ago

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  about 6 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
Thanks  

Am short of words i don't know were to start from in giving this testimony, first of all my name is Roland am from USA i want to testify the great thing Dr okpa did for me i never taught i could get Miranky back to my life after she left me for 2years despite i was the one who did her wrong, Miranky was the love of my life and which she still is, and which she will always be till death do both of us apart,i hurted her so much to the extend that i drove her out of my house just because i was dating this so called kayshun who is a devil, Kayshun messed my life up, i never taught i could be happy again then that was how i now realized that Miranky is the best among all ladies when i was with her things were going right the way i want it but i foolishly chased her away, after the encounter between me and Kayshun, then i now have to look for Miranky because i believe she is the only one who is been destined to be mine i called her for months pleading and begging her to forgive me that i did not know what came over me. i pleaded with her for good 8 months after the breakup between me and her which i caused in 2years but she decided not to accept me but i know she was right but am willing to stay with her love her and promise not to hurt her for any reason, but she did not understand so i have been trying to get her back to my life, but there has been no way to do this.there was a day when i was watching television, then i saw a man named Harry giving testimony to the world on how dr okpa brought back his wife with 2kids, then when i heard this i was so surprised then i decided to contact dr okpa to see if he can help me. when i contacted him he told me not to worry that she will surely come back to me in the next 24 hours, so that was how i waited to see what will happen, the next morning surprisingly i got a call from her she was crying and telling me that she was sorry for not accepting me on time, i was so surprised, so that was how i got Miranky back to my life and now we are living happily than ever before. Dr okpa i thank you so much if not for you what would i have done, sir you are great, if you want dr okpa to help you like as he has helped me you can contact him Via okpatempleofsolution@gmail. com or cell number +2348056563186.

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  about 7 years ago
Thanks  

Am short of words i don't know were to start from in giving this testimony, first of all my name is Roland am from USA i want to testify the great thing Dr okpa did for me i never taught i could get Miranky back to my life after she left me for 2years despite i was the one who did her wrong, Miranky was the love of my life and which she still is, and which she will always be till death do both of us apart,i hurted her so much to the extend that i drove her out of my house just because i was dating this so called kayshun who is a devil, Kayshun messed my life up, i never taught i could be happy again then that was how i now realized that Miranky is the best among all ladies when i was with her things were going right the way i want it but i foolishly chased her away, after the encounter between me and Kayshun, then i now have to look for Miranky because i believe she is the only one who is been destined to be mine i called her for months pleading and begging her to forgive me that i did not know what came over me. i pleaded with her for good 8 months after the breakup between me and her which i caused in 2years but she decided not to accept me but i know she was right but am willing to stay with her love her and promise not to hurt her for any reason, but she did not understand so i have been trying to get her back to my life, but there has been no way to do this.there was a day when i was watching television, then i saw a man named Harry giving testimony to the world on how dr okpa brought back his wife with 2kids, then when i heard this i was so surprised then i decided to contact dr okpa to see if he can help me. when i contacted him he told me not to worry that she will surely come back to me in the next 24 hours, so that was how i waited to see what will happen, the next morning surprisingly i got a call from her she was crying and telling me that she was sorry for not accepting me on time, i was so surprised, so that was how i got Miranky back to my life and now we are living happily than ever before. Dr okpa i thank you so much if not for you what would i have done, sir you are great, if you want dr okpa to help you like as he has helped me you can contact him Via okpatempleofsolution@gmail. com or cell number +2348056563186.

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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
veno114  

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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
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