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How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back - Is It Really Possible To Rekindle Love?
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How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back    -    Is It Really Possible To Rekindle Love?

We were a little past the four year anniversary of our relationship when my boyfriend suddenly decided we would be better off if we went our separate ways. I'm wasn't sure why he came to that conclusion. I thought everything was great. It didn’t take me long to decide I wanted to figure out how to get an ex boyfriend back.

Maybe he felt we were too young and he needed to have more freedom. I don’t know.

What I did know was that I was completely devastated when he broke the news. I cried for days on end. I finally realized I was no closer to figuring out how to get an ex boyfriend back because I was spending all my time moping around and crying.

I felt if I could just talk to him that I could easily rekindle the love we had. So I called him…a lot! Well, actually I TRIED to call him, but he seldom answered. When he did answer, he was cool and distant. Hmmm…the only thing that was doing was to make me feel worse than ever.

About that time I came to a decision of my own. Maybe he was right and we both needed some time apart and our own personal space. Well, it definitely wasn’t easy, but I stopped trying to call him for several weeks. The funny thing is, once I quit being obsessive about the break up, I was able to think a lot more clearly. I knew I would have to have a solid plan if I was going to figure out how to get an ex boyfriend back.

Something had led to my boyfriend wanting to break up and I knew I had to figure out what and why. The tricky thing was to get to the root problems. So far I was just scratching the surface. I just knew that once I got to the real problems, I could work on fixing them. I also figured out that it might take a while to iron out the issues. After all, we had been together four years.

Even though it was painful at times and I wanted to quit, I stuck it out. When it got really tough, I would just focus on how good it would be once I figured out how to get my ex boyfriend back. It helped get me through the bad times. Now I am happy that I stuck to it. The time apart was good for both of us and we both learned a lot about ourselves.

Eventually, we were able to be friends and hang out again. It was great to be able to spend time together and with our other friends. I focused on just being his friend and not putting any pressure on him to be anything more. As a result, over time, we were able to rekindle love and we are happier than ever.


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AdamCohen  

You know that feeling you get like blood rushing up to your head when you see or read something you feel its too not real to believe like get out of here that not real!!! yeah that was just how i use to fill each i bumped in one or two article about spell casting Online like that not so happening. Yet it was that same spell casting got me to live happily with the love of my life. Just thought you should know, Metodo Acamu was the spell caster behind the spell that brought me eternal happiness. Am gay and a school teacher from Belgium and my fiancé so happened to be a teacher also but we did work at the same school. We got engagement like 8 months before he started teach in a particular high school i can't disclose. I know eight months is a long time to be engagement but we planned our wedding to happen in the united state of America so we were preparing for the big day. Any way not every parent would like for there children to be educated about same sex as a matter of fact we teacher are not allowed to talk about our sexual orientation at school to the kids we teach. Its not even right to talk about any type personal stuff with kids at school but our case was different we were getting married and it was kind of the most talked about wedding of the year not like it was like that of Kim and Mr west but co teachers were talking some how it fell into the months of the kids at school that was went the problem came. Parent started talking saying how can the school let this happen they don't want their child hearing thing like this and start talking about it at home. Where we stay, there aren't a lot gay people. You can only find one out of ten persons that are gay so it was hard on us. There was pressure form the school to either call off the wedding or force quite our jobs. I was ready to leave everything just to be with my love but he was too scared. He didn't want to loss his job cos it took a while to find something that he loved doing. I knew he loved so much {and he still does} but he was scared of his future i tried everything ti make him see we can be together an find a way to deal with the school stuff but he still broke off our engagement and called off the wedding and stopped contacting almost like he doesn't love me any more. At a time i thought we were done until we resumed contacting each other in secret like we were doing anything wrong. It was so frustrating for me i was not free to love who i wanted in public cos he loved his job as a teacher so much anytime i bring up us to come out together in public he got angry. Our relationship got unhealthy for us both it was failing and i did want us to end like that i guess that how you feel when really in love with some. I was exhaust didn't want he wanted but i knew he loved me so much. So after literally trying everything to get us together as we were before we broke our engagement i thought i should give spell casting a try and really it worked. When i explained to Metod Acamu how i have tried all means but failed to make my fiancé become my fiancé again and get married, he said all i need was to use a spell to make him feel that love he felt before that made him put a ring it. He asked for some materials to use to get the spell casted he said i could bring it over to his fortress or send it over or send down the expenses to him to get them if i can find them to buy. It took some day to complete the spell and just after the spell was completed and made effective my heart desire was fulfilled we did not have to live Belgium any more we got married here their month but honeymooned in USA. If you don think it was the spell that made this happen then i don't know how then to explain the fact that he quite his teaching job he loved with his life cos everybody who knew him knew how he loved his job too much to quite for anything or anyone. And i would advice asked Metodo to get the materials for the spell for you . TO contact him use this metodoacamufortressx@yahoo. com

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  about 5 years ago
Thanks3  

I had doubts about magic spells but after i met Dr. Wicca, my story and my life turn around. I have tried different casters.. Some of them never answered me after I paid and were obvious scammers, some really cast a spell but for some reason it didn't work. Then I saw a video on you tube with a person who was mentioning she had results with Dr. Wicca then i decided to give spells a try. It's probably the best decision I ever made in my life because it worked and my girlfriend came back into my life and i have a good job now and its a great thing he did in my life. If you're looking for a good spell caster look no further, Dr. Wicca surpass all other spell casters, believe me! Email him on dr.wiccahightemple@gmail. com or facebook. com/wicca.temple Frank, USA

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  about 6 years ago
stella2  

I am testify to this great spell caster Dr. Sambo Ola. Thanks very much for the spell you cast for me. I am pleased to tell you that it worked great and I am now back with my husband and everything is okay. Thanks so much once again and will definitely order again in the future. Be blessed and keep it up with the Good work. He can also do the same for you. Email: sambolatemple@hotmailcom Milli

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  about 6 years ago
Joyvbest  

WAO MY FAMILY IS BACK AGAIN HI AM JULIO DA Sanchez’s, Am from Madrid Spain . with this great tears of joy and happiness in my heart today I want to give an unlimited thanks to this man Called DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo. com and also share my testimonies with this great man on how I was able to get my husband and my kids back to my arms once again after two years and after I thought all hope was lost in getting back my family .well and happy today I have my family back and I want to say to the whole world what would I have done if not for DR ABULU that I saw a testimony share on the internet by miss MICHELL FROM AUSTRALIA and I also contacted this man for help and he also did my own for me and to day am back with my husband |ALONSO DA SANCHEZ,S and my kids are happy with us . so I want to am very happy today and I want to say to everyone on this site that I will always remain thankful to this man DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo .com for all this he has done for me, thanks to you once again DR for am grateful to you and will always be

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  about 6 years ago

MY NAME IS DEBORAH WALLACE FROM HOUSTON,TEXAS.I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS OR MAGIC UNTIL I MET THIS SPELL CASTER ONCE WHEN I WENT TO AFRICA IN JANUARY LAST YEAR ON A BUSINESS SUMMIT. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE MAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS... I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO TEXAS, MY BOYFRIEND(NOW HUSBAND) CALLED ME BY HIMSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND HE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY BOYFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO... WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY HUSBAND ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS spirituallove@hotmail. com....

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  about 6 years ago

i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn't believe in all those things… then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 7 days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address spirituallove@hotmail. com his spells is for a better life.

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  about 6 years ago
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