If what you and your ex boyfriend had was true love, it is very possible to salvage it. What you need to do is think things over first. Understand the reasons that made him break up with you in the first place. In most cases, people do not break up because the love is not there anymore.

Issues that crop up in the relationship are the ones that draw people apart. If you focus on the love the two of you share, it is possible to forget about other shortcomings and work at rebuilding the relationship. The following are some tips on how to get your ex back.

If you look desperate and needy, you will just give him more reason to stay away from you. He might also take advantage of your emotional weakness and this will end up hurting you more. It is good to draw inner strength and focus on what is important.

Do not let obstacles that may come on your way distract you. Take sometime away where you do not see him or call him. The time apart will make you a stronger person. It will also help you to focus more attention on yourself and give him time to miss you. Remember that he did not leave you because he didn't love you.

You are bound to collide with him as you go on with your daily chores. Be friendly, to him. Don't be too emotional even if it is your first meeting after the break up. Do not talk about the issues that made you break up as this will just make things worse. Talk about things in general. Make sure you look beautiful, sweet and happy even if your heart is aching. It will be hard for him to resist spending more time with you when you two are having fun together.

Since he is now comfortable relating with you, chances are he will start remembering all the things that made him love you so much. He will start missing all the things that you used to do together and want to have you back. Do not fall for him so easily. Play hard to get but this should not be so much that he interprets it as that you no longer want him in your life.

Let him know that you still love him but you are just not sure if you want to be with him again. Men always want that which gives them a challenge. If you prove to be one, he will love you even more and he will not let you go again.

When you are together, bring back memories of your first date, the first kiss, the most memorable moments you had together and anything else that the two of you ever shared. It is possible to bring the happiness of the past days in to the present and make him just want to relive those days.

If you want to have him for good, the two of you should be ready to work on the things that made you part ways in the first place. Once you have him back, try and make the relationship better than it was before.