Most women have had a strong relationship during their life, when suddenly out of know where their boyfriend says he needs more space and wants to break up want seem to be a happy relationship. There are many reasons why he may need the space. He may have a fear of commitment or a feeling of insecurity. It may also be due to a family issue he is dealing with. This article will and try and address steps you can take when your boyfriend ask for more space.

If you think that your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for you, then keeping a line of communication open to him can help. It is very important to not over do this though. He asks for more space so you don’t want to smother him. Keep it to brief phone calls or short text messages and don’t do this everyday space it out.

If he truly has feeling for you over time he will start to show interest again. When this happens try and bring back memories of some of the good times you had together. Let him think about the positive experiences you shared as a couple and let him start missing that part of his life.

If you are not receiving any positive responses to your subtle advances then you may have to pulse and rethink the situation. It could be that he really does not have any feeling for you right now or that he really does need the time away to get through whatever issues he has to deal with. But if your slow advances seem to be working and he’s showing a renewed interest in you, then keep gradually advancing and working on renewing the relationship to get it back to where it was or may be even better than before.

This is a time when you could try and open up to him a little more but be careful not to overdo it. Make sure you don’t come across as being desperate or needy since this could push him away. This is going to be the time you really need to try and dial in on his emotions to see how far you should go. If he’s showing you positive signs that he wants to start the relationship again then open your heart to him. If it seems he’s not quite ready yet, slow down and give him a little more time. Just keep the line of communication open and use it to reinforce the positive things you have shared together.

These are the first steps to getting your boyfriend back. Above all keep a positive attitude. These are some of the lessons that I learned from the man that saved my relationship. If it wasn’t for his course on how to get back with an ex I might never have been able to rekindle the greatest relationship of my life. I hope this article can help you do the same.