If you're wondering “how to get my girlfriend to come back to me”, believe me, you're in a common situation that just about every guy has to face at some point in his life. When your girlfriend leaves you, either because it “just wasn't working”, she says, or because there is another guy or something, the situation is not hopeless. If you have one thing on your side, it's the fact that couples reunite constantly, and in many cases, a lot of relationships are very repairable.
However it's important to know not just what you should do when you're wondering 'how do I get my girlfriend to come back to me'? But also what you shouldn't. And there is one thing that will drive an ex away faster than wildfire.
That is: DESPERATION.
When she sees a thousand messages in her email and on her phone from you, begging you to take her back, that you will be better and you love her so much, that is going to have the OPPOSITE effect of what you want. I know, I know, it seems illogical that she wouldn't react positively to that, but the thing about girls is that they react to EMOTION, not logic. No argument you make is going to get her back, even if it's perfect.
So the one thing you DON'T want to do, when you are trying to get her back, is to call her and text her asking her to take you back. In fact, until you have managed to calm yourself with the Calm Mind Technique, you shouldn't be contacting her at all. You need to get your thoughts to be calm before you can successfully go about the steps to win her back. Otherwise, the chances of her smelling the dreaded “D” or just shutting off contact with you are much greater, because she will sense you are in an emotional state. Women have an innate “emotional radar” that allows them to very quickly pick up on someone's emotions – but you can work this to your advantage.
So ultimately, when you want to know 'how to get my girlfriend to come back to me', you need to first exercise the process to calm your mind, and then continue along the correct steps to get your girlfriend back and to think of you in a positive light. From there, you can work on establishing contact, using the Instant Reconnect Method to trick her into thinking you're back together.
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