Have you just broken up with your boyfriend/girlfriend? You’re not alone, pretty much every adult will experience a break up at some point in their lives, and a lot of people will simply give up instead of looking for a way to get the ex back. If you have had enough of simply giving up and you want to work towards getting the ex back i am going to give you some advice. Just because you have broken up does not mean that the relationship is over.

After a breakup, the large majority of the time there isn’t a very good reason why you can’t get your ex back, you just need to know how to go about doing this.

The first step you should take is to try and work out what it was that caused you and your partner to break up. Although you cannot turn back time and changed what has already happened, you can learn and grow from these mistakes so there is minimal chance of a break up occurring again.

Your ex may have come to their decision to end the relationship based on a single event, or it could have been something you were doing that they couldn’t stand anymore. Regardless of what it was that caused the breakup, you need to understand what it was that caused it so you can act accordingly if the situation ever comes up again. With some patience you can get the ex back, just take things slow and things will more than likely fall into place. Make sure you understand what went wrong to begin with.

The next step is a big one, if you do this then you have almost no chance in getting the ex back. And that is being needy. It is completely understandable to feel as though you can’t survive without them, especially if the relationship lasted for a long time, but do not come across as needy to your ex. This will hurt your chances immensely. Instead you need to give your ex the impression that you are doing absolutely fine on your own, if you let her and everyone else around you see that you are confident and happy, you will maximise your chances of getting the ex back.

Another big no-no when it comes to getting back with your ex is trying to get revenge or trying to make them jealous. This will send them the message that they should just move on because you obviously have. Make sure they know you are doing fine, but don’t show off a new partner if your goal is to get them back, although this can work if you’re luck, a lot of the time it will send them in the opposite direction from you and they will completely write you off.

When it comes to getting the ex back you need to give the impression of happiness, strength and confidence. Good luck!