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How To Make A Broken Relationship Work
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How To Make A Broken Relationship Work

Couples break up every day, it’s a sad but true fact. Many times the break up was for reasons that really aren’t all that difficult to work out. I think that so often we go into a relationship and everything is just so wonderful. Then one day, it starts falling apart, leaving us to wonder just how to make a broken relationship work.

So now you know, relationships don’t just happen, they take some work! Sometimes it’s really hard work. And then there are the times when everything between the two of you is so good!

Breakups happen for many different reasons. Sometimes we just grow apart, but communication (or lack of it) can be a big issue too. We can all have our feelings hurt or maybe we just don’t like the amount of time our partner spends away from us.

We can all be a little jealous, insecure, and uncertain sometimes. But if you are sure that he or she is ‘the one’, you don’t want to give up easily. However, when the refusal to give up gets to the point where you are smothering the other person, you could be doing more harm than good.

I remember a little saying from my young adulthood, “How can I miss you if you won’t go away?” So if you are constantly all over them, they are going to want to be away from you even more. Play it cool and don’t panic.

Do you know what the problems are with the relationship? If so, how can you fix them? Can you even fix them? And lastly, should you fix them?

These are important questions to ask yourself. You need to look deep inside your heart and mind for the answers. You may end up being surprised to learn that they aren’t the match for you. If so, then you need to just let that relationship go, even though it’s really hard to do.

So then, what do you do if you decide that the problems can be worked out? The next phase is to get the other person on board. If the two of you haven’t communicated much lately, they may be already missing you.

Just because they miss you doesn’t mean they are going to be anxious to give things another try. Odds are they will be gun shy and you are going to have to show them that things could be good again, maybe ever better this time.

Steps To Making A Broken Relationship Work Again

· Pinpoint the problems

· Find solutions to the problems

· See if you can get your ex somewhere neutral to talk

· Tell them how you feel, what you feel the problems are, and the possible solutions you came up with

· Hopefully they want to work on the relationship and will have some ideas on how to make things better too

· Together, work on making the relationship stronger and better than ever

Sometimes when we are getting a relationship back on solid ground we tend to rush things. I suggest taking things slowly. If one of the issues is broken trust you need to be especially careful, as trust takes a lot of time to rebuild.


Street Talk

My advice to any one who might be thinking of contacting a spell caster,is to contact Metodo i know he the only real spell caster i think still leaves his methods will speak and make you believe. I am not really that kind of person that disclose much about myself experience especially on the internet but today i am going to make an to exception I really never intended to say to anybody that i used a spell to get what i wanted in life not cos i am ashamed of it but cos some may never believe cos its seem like something that can never happen. All it take is to find the real and right spell caster. Am that kind of person that have always thought that marrying a rich man will set me free in financially as a matter of fact i have been married to to four different men all for money i guess after every divorce with every one of them i didn't as much as i expected even when there was no prenuptial agreement signed. But When i met my firth to be husband,i never expected i will fall for him so much i mean he was so charming cute and for the first time he made me feel safe like he will always be here for me not matter what happens. For the first time i was in love. Maybe i don't know what love is cos i never felt it for any one my ex husband the only detail i can give is that my heart literally beats fast when he was around me, anytime he ran his finger through my hair. I always knew my past will come to hurt me no matter what i do but i never gave it to much thought cos i never thought i will meet this kind of man. At the time i meant him ,it was not a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. We moved in together and our relationship just blosoomed. He was gentle with me always i mean my life was a fairy tale for a moment. But then again my past life that was to be left in the closet got out. I was so much in love to not tell him about my pasted life i just wanted to left him know like this was the person i use to be but cos of him i changed .He brought me to the light. I guess that was not the case he grew mad at me and thought i was going to do the same thing to him just like my exes. I don't know if it was that in the last 4 years i have been married four time to four different men cos of their bank statement that made him mad of was that i didn't tell him all this while. All the same after a while of not speaking with me he moved out. I thought he was going to call i just wanted to give him space i mean my friends suggested i did that but time few by with no call no text the only time he came back to our house was to pick his remaining things. The first man i have ever loved was walking out of my life just like a mist that comes and go i wanted him back to show him that he changed me to show him with him am a different person,He kept saying he would not want the same thing to happen to him just like my exes i believed he still loved he though he never said but that thought made me contact Metodo the spell caster for help. I saw positive comments about him and someone said she has actually seen, that is come in contact with him during the time he helped her. Was not really sure what to believe i just thought i was desperate i need help right away or i was going to lose my dream man for life. Like honestly i was not going to travel for over thirteen hours or so to look for metodo in were he leaves cos one i din't know anybody there and two my run my private spa so i had little all not time and it will be an expensive thing to do. I could not also get the materials he needed to cast the spell so i had to ask him to get them for me so i can give him the money to pay for them. Within the first seven week he sent me a some candle with some hand written don't really know what to call it but will say words to recite at night at the right hour. At that time within the seven days, Stephen started coming around all the time i mean i don't think it was coincidental cos really it wasn't. I believed what Metodo was doing was working. Just after those seven day i received a parcel with something he gave me instruction on how to use. This is no lie in anyway Stephen and i are back together now he is no slave to anything cos of the spell he is just the way he was before the spell only made him love me more and never talk or think about my past life. Not everybody will believe this more over its just something on the internet but my heart knows every of this word that formed this entire comment is true. Living Metodo contact for those who believes me and needs help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

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  about 6 years ago

If you have more good than bad...try, try. again

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  about 8 years ago

Yes indeed! Sometimes you come off a really bad time and it's better than it was before. So it's worth the try.

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  about 8 years ago

I used to be very very bad about fixing stuff...i give them one mistake(a really bad one) and it is over....Now we talk about everything...

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  about 8 years ago

Talking it out is always good. I pretty much demand total honesty in a relationship. So some of them don't hang around long!

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  about 8 years ago
Linda14  

You've been a busy girl on street articles lately, where do you find the time?? Great advice as usual.

Reply
  about 8 years ago

I am on summer break right now from my 'usual job'. And I have helpers to take up some slack around the house. It's pretty awesome.

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  about 8 years ago
Linda14  

Lucky girl. I'm going to busier than usual. I start a 4 evening a week computer course starting on Monday, plus my house cleaning business is getting busy. I hope I have some more time in August.

  
  about 8 years ago
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