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How To Make Her Miss You And Want You Back - It Is Easier Than You Think!
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How To Make Her Miss You And Want You Back    -    It Is Easier Than You Think!

Want to know how to make her miss you and want you back? Find out exactly what you have to do and say to make her miss you and want you back again here. We will give you some proven techniques that actually turn your whole situation around and make her miss you like crazy and want you back.

Changing her thoughts about you

Making your ex girlfriend miss you is the best thing that you can do to get her back. When you think about it from a psychological perspective you will understand how powerful it is. We all value that which is rare, the same goes for human beings. If you are not always around then she will start to see you differently and her thoughts about you will change too. If you manage to put some space between you both after the break up, she will soon start to miss you, a lot quicker than she expects too.

Act differently to how she expects you to

If she is the one that broke up with you, she will probably be expecting you to act in a certain way. The fact is that she will be relying on you feeling a certain way about her. If you do not give her the satisfaction of pining for her and chasing after her, she will be stumped and have to reassess your relationship. When you surprise someone, especially after such a close relationship, they will suddenly be interested in you again, because they will be struggling to work out your actions. This mysteriousness and confusion are then the secret of making her want you back. They are very attractive traits, particularly in the eyes of a female.

Control your emotions

This may all sound very confusing to you, the female mind is! The important thing that you have to remember though is that you should fight your emotional reactions after the break up and stop yourself from contacting your ex girlfriend. You have to be strong and show her that you are worth taking back, not a needy wreck who has no direction in life without her. Also, do not do what she expects you to do and plead for her to reconsider, you have your self respect and she will not view you favorably if you do this either.

If you want to use the techniques on how to make her miss you properly you will have to show some restraint here. She does not want to see you blubbering or pleading on her to give it another shot. Reverse the roles here for a second and think about how it would look to you if she did this - unattractive and desperate right? Keep this in mind when you next feel like contacting her or telling her how you feel.

Fight the temptation to get in touch with her

She will be expecting you to contact her in some shape or form after the break up and this will give her satisfaction as she knows that you still have feelings for her. Instead of letting this happen you should make her work for your attention instead. This can swing the whole situation in your favour and make her be the one who is chasing you. To do this you will stop all forms of contact with her and drop off her radar for a while.

She will secretly be looking out for you and trying to see how you are after the break up, this is only natural. If you take yourself away from her then she will have to fill in the blanks herself. You want to seem like you are busy and that you have better things to do with your time than contact her. She will also me much more likely to contact you when you do this and ask you how you are doing.

What to do when she gets in contact with you

I'm not saying that you should completely ignore your ex girlfriend if she gets in touch with you, this would be rather stupid and give her the idea that you are not interested or are being childish. Instead, if she does happen to text you to say that she misses you or just to enquire about you, you should be pleasant and answer her questions, but not go into detail. You should also be positive and try not to convey any bitterness or depression, the same goes for being too keen too. It is best not to ask her any questions in response or encourage further discussion. You should keep it short and positive and not reply straight away. You will then know that she really is missing you if she continues to contact you after this. That is when you can start winning her back.

It is ironic that the main secret of making your ex girlfriend miss you is to do very little at all. Sometimes this is the case. You will in fact end up reversing the whole break up and make it similar to how it was when you first met. Your lack of contact and increasing mysteriousness will spark attraction in your ex girlfriend again, this will in turn make her want you in a romantic way.

Your Next Steps

This is the main thing that you can do to get her back, but there are so many other things that you can do and this is just the start of your journey. You will need to work out signs that she wants you first of all and from there you can implement very effective strategies to make her want you back. If you are friends with your ex girlfriend we will also teach you how to get out of the friend zone and why being friends with ex girlfriend is a bad idea if you want to win back her heart.


Street Talk

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