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How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Chase You - This Works!
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How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Chase You  -  This Works!

Chasing after an ex boyfriend is almost a sure fire way to make sure he keeps running from you. Point blank, it doesn't work and it makes you look pretty desperate and foolish in the process. Instead, learn some methods to get him hot on your trail once again. A little reverse psychology is needed for this.

Turn around and walk in the opposite direction. Now we realize this has nothing to do with actual walking or running, but you know what we're talking about right? Stop making a fool of yourself by continuing to pursue your ex after the break up. If you stop chasing after him, believe me, he will notice. It will also start to bother him and make him curious.

No matter how much you'd love to be trailing this guy, refrain. It is definitely in your best interest to stay away. Keep this in mind because you will have to convince yourself of this in order to resist the urge to pursue him. After the breakup is not the time to be doing this type of thing, so stay strong, especially if you ever have any hopes of winning him back.

No matter what you think you might need to say to your ex, now is not the right time. It is more advisable for you to simply stay away during this time after the break up. The less attention you pay to him right now, the more likely he will be to start pursuing you in the future.

Not Cutting The Ties After The Breakup

The minute your boyfriend broke up with you, the relationship was over. The sooner you accept this fact and move on, the better. The sooner you do this, the sooner you can begin to set your plans for reconciliation in motion.

If you cannot seem to remove yourself emotionally from the situation, and keep sticking around even after the break up, this is only impeding your progress of ultimately getting back together with him. You both need to go your separate ways in order to break the emotional ties.

Don't prolong this step, as it will hurt your chances of getting back together in the future. You will also need to stop texting him, calling him, or dropping him little emails or messages on Facebook. Make a clean break. All of these sweet little gestures aren't helping you, and they give your ex the upper hand by telling him you're still hung up on him. He may take advantage of your emotional state if you give him that power, so revoke it. Take back your power and don't give him control over your emotions anymore.

When you fail to cut those emotional ties and continue contact with your ex, you are not allowing him to see what his life would be like without you in it. Why? Because you refuse to go away! How can he miss you when you're still right there under his nose, or on his Facebook page, or on his cell phone message? The fact is, he can't. You need to break the ties and give the boy a chance to face reality...without you. Trying to be his friend and being there for him can only backfire on you.

Withdraw Yourself From His Life

A great way to make your ex boyfriend chase you, is to make the break clean and not look back. This will be difficult, but it will also give you the upper hand. If you stick around for awhile after the break up , or remain in contact, he will begin to take your presence for granted. Same holds true for if you slowly fade away, he has gotten used to gradually lessening his contact with you and doesn't feel the loss as deeply. This is why you need to do it in one fell swoop.

By completely removing yourself from your ex's life, you are going to leave a giant void. There is no way he will not notice your absence. This will make him sit up and take notice. He will also likely begin to feel sad and have doubts as to why he let you go in the first place.

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and many times this is the case. Your withdrawal from his life will make him feel lonely. Your abrupt departure from his life is the one true way to make him start to miss you and want to get back together with you again. Guilt trips, making him pity you, or attempting to seduce him are not effective ways to get him back.They might work temporarily, but you cannot make him stay with you if he doesn't want you.

Instead, by coming to terms with the break up, you are allowing your ex to open up to you. By knowing you've accepted his decision about breaking up and not fighting it and acting foolish, this will increase the chances that he will let his guard down and feel more comfortable approaching you again. Even if you've had a hard time and it took you awhile to reach this point, once you do you greatly increase your chances for future reconciliation.

Turning The Tables

You can get the ball in your court and have a little fun in the process by agreeing with your ex about the decision to split up. You might even go so far as to tell him he was right, it was probably for the best. At first, he'll find that pretty cool...then his ego will get wise to what you just said. Oh the wheels in his mind are spinning now! Did you just basically tell him you're happy about the breakup? Were you possibly planning on ending things with him if he hadn't beaten you to it? Well, why did you possibly want to break it off with him? He's probably pretty quiet at this point, which is a great time to walk way.

Right now, this guy has a million questions that no one but you can answer. Therefore, he will need to pursue you in order to get these answers. You have effectively made him chase you again. Even though it was his idea to call it quits, the fact that you're so cool about it will drive him crazy. He may even begin to get a bit jealous and wonder if you're now interested in someone else.

By using this reversal technique, you've got your ex's interest again. This is a great way to shake your guy's confidence and make him doubt ever letting you go. When you were easily accessible to him, he didn't see your worth. But now that you're so gracefully moving forward with your life, you hold great appeal to him once again, this is how you make him want you back.

Other Effective Ways To Reverse The Situation

There are also other effective methods to use to get your ex's attention again. Even if he's been ignoring you, you can once again get him to chase you like he did in the beginning. All that is necessary is to learn and employ the correct techniques for reconnection. One such technique is the no contact rule, get this right and you are well on your way to succeeding.

Wouldn't it be great if you could find out the truth about how he really feels about you first though? Well you actually can be reading the signs he still loves you. He will be giving off some pretty obvious as well as subtle clues right now. Decipher these and you will know what your chances are of getting him back.


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AdamCohen  

You know that feeling you get like blood rushing up to your head when you see or read something you feel its too not real to believe like get out of here that not real!!! yeah that was just how i use to fill each i bumped in one or two article about spell casting Online like that not so happening. Yet it was that same spell casting got me to live happily with the love of my life. Just thought you should know, Metodo Acamu was the spell caster behind the spell that brought me eternal happiness. Am gay and a school teacher from Belgium and my fiancé so happened to be a teacher also but we did work at the same school. We got engagement like 8 months before he started teach in a particular high school i can't disclose. I know eight months is a long time to be engagement but we planned our wedding to happen in the united state of America so we were preparing for the big day. Any way not every parent would like for there children to be educated about same sex as a matter of fact we teacher are not allowed to talk about our sexual orientation at school to the kids we teach. Its not even right to talk about any type personal stuff with kids at school but our case was different we were getting married and it was kind of the most talked about wedding of the year not like it was like that of Kim and Mr west but co teachers were talking some how it fell into the months of the kids at school that was went the problem came. Parent started talking saying how can the school let this happen they don't want their child hearing thing like this and start talking about it at home. Where we stay, there aren't a lot gay people. You can only find one out of ten persons that are gay so it was hard on us. There was pressure form the school to either call off the wedding or force quite our jobs. I was ready to leave everything just to be with my love but he was too scared. He didn't want to loss his job cos it took a while to find something that he loved doing. I knew he loved so much {and he still does} but he was scared of his future i tried everything ti make him see we can be together an find a way to deal with the school stuff but he still broke off our engagement and called off the wedding and stopped contacting almost like he doesn't love me any more. At a time i thought we were done until we resumed contacting each other in secret like we were doing anything wrong. It was so frustrating for me i was not free to love who i wanted in public cos he loved his job as a teacher so much anytime i bring up us to come out together in public he got angry. Our relationship got unhealthy for us both it was failing and i did want us to end like that i guess that how you feel when really in love with some. I was exhaust didn't want he wanted but i knew he loved me so much. So after literally trying everything to get us together as we were before we broke our engagement i thought i should give spell casting a try and really it worked. When i explained to Metod Acamu how i have tried all means but failed to make my fiancé become my fiancé again and get married, he said all i need was to use a spell to make him feel that love he felt before that made him put a ring it. He asked for some materials to use to get the spell casted he said i could bring it over to his fortress or send it over or send down the expenses to him to get them if i can find them to buy. It took some day to complete the spell and just after the spell was completed and made effective my heart desire was fulfilled we did not have to live Belgium any more we got married here their month but honeymooned in USA. If you don think it was the spell that made this happen then i don't know how then to explain the fact that he quite his teaching job he loved with his life cos everybody who knew him knew how he loved his job too much to quite for anything or anyone. And i would advice asked Metodo to get the materials for the spell for you . TO contact him use this metodoacamufortressx@yahoo. com

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  about 1 month ago

My wife has accused me of a lot of things in our years of marriage some of those accusation were true and i admitted to doing them but am to much in love with her to give her an s.t.d. She was down to end our marriage cos she believed i gave an s.t.d. She had a good reason to believe that cos of late i haven't been the best husband. Thank God that s@@t was clarified in the Trisha show that i was not responsible for the s.t.d. She was in love with me as i was in love with her. Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. We never really got along. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. After the show she was more down to live me. She asked that i move out of the house filled for a divorce and all. I could not let her go just like that.I got desperate and i panicking so i used a spell to get her back i know most people don't believe and you may call me crazy but it worked for me. I found a comment on internet about this spell caster Metodo Ell. The comment said he doesn't do spell for those who are not meant to be together. All i needed for the spell were materials to get the spell done. I could not get them so i paid him to get them for me since he is the expert in this stuff. As far as i can tell that s$$t worked cos all my marriage problem just fall off my shoulder and my stepson is cool with me now. If you want to get him to cast a spell for you contact him here with this email address metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com he could also do a direct spell maybe it meant cost a little more than mine i don't know him only can tell you that.

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  about 9 months ago

I don't know if anyone reading this article is maybe in need of some spell caster or you want to try using a spell, i will be honest with you contact Mutton Osun cos he is the only one i can say know a lot of stuff about casting spell.I mean he helped me a great deal but i most warning you, you gonna be needing materials or sometimes lot of materials for the spell and the materials are not that expensive.And believe me he doesnt ask you to pay for his services.Contact him through here godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 10 months ago

My whole life i ve never had a stable relationship all men come get want they and go. As a matter of fact i saw myself as tool for all men. I don't no its like i was just not loveable no matter how i give my all to them they end up living me with nothing but a broken heart. All these bad relationship i had experienced led to a psyhcological breake down thank my star that i got through that. Finding a man was never hard for me they just all wanted sex with me and once they get it, they all live but for the first time i found one that was willing to stay. I seeked advice and help if they could i even checked the internet for solution which endded up being a waste of time. However, i saw articles or rather comments of a lot of persons who used spell casting to fix their relationship and some it get those who they loved to see how much they loved them. And they all kept referring to a paticular spell caster mutton osun. At first i just ingnored it but my lover came across those article also. After we talked about it we desided to contact him and asked if he cud in any way help us. He just and only asked us to provide some really weird materials that just thinking if it made me scared not like they were harmful its just that i was not used to this things. We ie me and my lover desided that we sould asked him to get them with what we sent to him ie, money. We asked him to cast a spell to make ,y lover wife set him free and he did as we asked and it walked i know cos 12 hours before he said he has completed the spell, she was still very much not going to sign any divorce papper but after thecompletation of the spell all we did was give her the papper and without a fight he signed it. I know its hard to belief only the people close to us know how true this is. lets just say you want to contact use this email address godsofosunx@rockemail. com

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  about 1 year ago

I hate to say this i have to cos even of it feels wrong its something i had to do.Some people say if a door closes another opens but i say that is just a fancy way of dealing with the pain we feel cos really if we loss something or someone so dear, we can never really get a replacement cos nothing will ever seem to fit.Well that was just how i felt when my wife wanted out of a eleven years marriage with beautiful kids. As ashamed and as sorry as i am, it was all my fault. I made our marriage almost come to an end but glade it didn't all thinks to Mutton Osun a magic guy or rather spell caster as most people call it online.Its amazing how one mistake can take away all you have worked hard for in just a blink. Just a moment of weakness that made me cheat on my wife, would have been the end of all my happiness and my family. It didn't stay hidden for so long she found out and she lost it all i saw it clearly she still loved me so much cos in her eyes all i could see was deep pain and a thick cut in her heart even when she kicked me out and wanted a divorce. I loved this woman with all my heart heart and was really not going to let her go. As i said i asked a spell caster Mutton Osun to help me restore my marriage and my life cos really he was my last option to happiness again. His spell made the subconscious of her that always loved me selflessly surface again as he explained what ever he did help a lot as other article i read about him said, he only asks for materials for the spell and if it may arise extra money to ship the spell package to you. He is honest and trustworthy one of the only good help out there. IF you may contact do it with this email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 1 year ago

I hate to say this i have to cos even of it feels wrong its something i had to do.Some people say if a door closes another opens but i say that is just a fancy way of dealing with the pain we feel cos really if we loss something or someone so dear, we can never really get a replacement cos nothing will ever seem to fit.Well that was just how i felt when my wife wanted out of a eleven years marriage with beautiful kids. As ashamed and as sorry as i am, it was all my fault. I made our marriage almost come to an end but glade it didn't all thinks to Mutton Osun a magic guy or rather spell caster as most people call it online.Its amazing how one mistake can take away all you have worked hard for in just a blink. Just a moment of weakness that made me cheat on my wife, would have been the end of all my happiness and my family. It didn't stay hidden for so long she found out and she lost it all i saw it clearly she still loved me so much cos in her eyes all i could see was deep pain and a thick cut in her heart even when she kicked me out and wanted a divorce. I loved this woman with all my heart heart and was really not going to let her go. As i said i asked a spell caster Mutton Osun to help me restore my marriage and my life cos really he was my last option to happiness again. His spell made the subconscious of her that always loved me selflessly surface again as he explained what ever he did help a lot as other article i read about him said, he only asks for materials for the spell and if it may arise extra money to ship the spell package to you. He is honest and trustworthy one of the only good help out there. IF you may contact do it with this email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 1 year ago

As much as i would like to advice and give my testimony, typing a long text wouldn't help me tell the truth better so i would just be strange forward in what i have to say.First love spell are real second if you are to contact any spellcaster be very careful so as not to contact the wrong one as at now the only one i would recommend is Mutton Osun.He helped me with my relationship problem and some other thing i needed to be fixed can really give details here. At a time it was had to trust him cos he kept asking for material i had to pay foras wrong as i was, i thought he was reaping me off my money.Just when i thought to say no more he finished what i had asked him to do for me. I felt humiliated for not trusting him.From me i can say he is real and if you ever contact him have no fear you're safe with him cos he can fix the longest broken relationship you can see other testimony online if you are skeptical about mine.His contact email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 1 year ago
mark36  

My name is Mark, from USA. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit, I meant a man who’s name is DR Moko he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years. I really loved her, but her mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 4 days when i returned to Canada, my Girlfriend called me by herself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and she got a new job interview, so we get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my girlfriend name. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my wife also got the new job and our lives became much better, You can contact him on this email: Mokospellcaster@gmail. com

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  about 1 year ago
kite  

Am Julia Ferguson from Canada Life can be very displeasing especially when we loose the ones we love and cherish so much. in this kind of situation where one loses his/her soul mate there are several dangers engage in it. one may no longer be able to do the things he was doing before then success will be very scarce and happiness will be rare. that person was created to be with you for without him things may fall apart. That was my experience late last year. but thank god today i am happy with him again. all thanks goes to Dr. Awase, i was nearly loosing hope until i saw an article on how Dr. Awase could cast a love spell to make lovers come back. There is no harm in trying, i said to my self. i contacted him via email: Awaselovespell@yahoo. com. words will not be enough to appreciate what he has done for me. i have promised to share the good news as long as i live

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  about 1 year ago

maybe be someone out there is look for help to get back together with some you really lover i would advice you to contact mutton cos he is really good at this spell stuff.I know you all think that this might be a lie and a trick,The true is that you may be right i can prove it to you.But however you can contact can see for yourself his hand work i was in this problem and i had issue of trust but when i contact mutton for help his honestly was strong and i got a good result he definitely loves help out with relationship problem you can never be too sure of this unless you contact him for help.Here is an email address to help you reach him godsofsounx@rocketmail. com i promise you your decision will not bring regret ok.

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  about 1 year ago
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