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In order to get your ex-boyfriend to come back, there are a few things you have to do. Learn how to understand how male psychology works and how he feels and thinks after the incident.

On your quest to have him find your way back to you it can feel like you are constantly hitting a dead end. Often times women do the first thing that comes to mind and it ends up rubbing him the wrong way and making him step farther back from you. However, don’t be down when this happens. After all, learning to find and keep a man is a skill acquired over time.

You may feel jealous at times at the other women you see who seem to have everything under control. Some people know all the right tricks in keeping a good relationship. You too can learn those tricks and have success with men. In order to understand him more you need to know what makes him tick. This will require a bit of research if you really want to make him come back to you. This article is here to guide you on your way.

Stay away from him and watch him drift back to you

Advice like this seems a little backwards to most. However, often times this works very well. Sometimes a relationship needs a break and not a breakup. Getting out of his sight for a while will often stir emotions within him and make him want to see you again. Difficulty may appear if you work at the same establishment or go to school together and share classes. A different plan of action will be needed if either of those two options applies to you. The point of staying out of sight is to ensure you don’t contact him or look at him at any way. Male pride almost dictates that he tries to find out whether or not you are truly over him and he will get an ego boost out of it when he sees you are missing him.

By establishing no contact with him you are doing what he least expects. This is one of the secrets to make him think things over and want to get you back. This comes from males expecting you to chase after them and get their attention. Most females end up doing this to no effect. However, the no contact phase makes it look like you do not care. The point of this is to instil the question of whether you liked him to begin with. It sounds like a cold thing to do to a person, but rest assured this isn’t a bad thing to do. It allows his mind to think more and more about the situations and get him interested in you again.

Be aware that there is a big difference in having no contact with him and being rude. If he does want to start a conversation it is imperative that you are never rude towards him. Even if you don’t mean it put a smile on your face and be open to trading a few comments back and forth. The trick is not to ask him any questions and to respond to his own questions with as few words as possible. Be encouraging and nice towards him. Then lightly let him know that you are running behind schedule and have to go. Be gentle when you do this as you do not want to cut off all communication attempts. You want him to feel like he can approach you again in the future.

Draw his interest by appearing mysterious

He had a reason for falling for you the first time. He found something in you that made you stand apart from the many females in the world. Reminisce on the past to remember what he really liked about you in the beginning. Once you know what this is you can start to find those qualities within yourself again. Indulging in old hobbies or taking up new pastimes will allow him to see a change in you. This will also keep your mind distracted from the pain of the breakup and allow you to focus your thoughts forward. When you sit around at home moping about the breakup you are more likely to contact him and act rash.

Appearing busy does not mean you have to be rude towards him. The trick is to keep busy and make it look like you have an action packed schedule. Adding spice to appearing mysterious is to avoid sites like Facebook or Twitter. He will be drawn to look at your profile to see what is going on in your life, but you want to make sure he doesn’t know. After all, he walked away from you. Not everything has to go his way.

Consistently updating your profile gives him the information he wants as well as an excuse to not contact you. By doing this you are letting him miss you in the virtual and in the real world. He will be much more eager to contact you if you totally disappear from his radar. When this happens you are increasing your chances of making him come back to you.

Your next step

The two suggestions shown to you in this article will most certainly increase your chance of getting him to come back as they are most effective. However, the work does not end there. There is much more you can do that will make him change his mind and start chasing you again. It is important that you also read up on the signs he still likes you. Guys often give you clue after you breakup and you need to see where you stand before you can move forward. With a little bit of time, patience and know how, you can see how he responds to you and give you the sign as to whether or not to stick to your plan.

Other than that you can use Facebook to your advantage. There are some extremely effective Facebook techniques that you can begin using now to turn your whole break up on its head. When you do your research on this you will see exactly how easy it is to make him desire you again.


Street Talk

These comment you see on the internet about Metodo are not just comment they are truthful word written by those who have been there and found help in reunite with the one they hold dear to heart. I can tell you these cos i also asked him for help to cast a spell to fix my relationship with the only man i have ever loved after been married four time in the last four years cos i didn't believe in love but in the power of been rich. When it came to been Stephen it was different i fell for him in every way. Maybe i don't know what love is cos i never felt it for any of one my ex husband the only detail i can give is that my heart literally beat fast when he was around, anytime he ran his finger through my hair. I always knew my past will always hurt not matter what i do but i never gave it too much thought cos i never thought i will meet this kind of man. At the time i meant him it was only a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. We moved in together and our relationship just blosoomed. He was gentle with me always i mean my life was a fairy for a moment. But then again my past life that was to be left in the closet got out. It almost ruined my life i almost lost the love of my life but Metodo the spell caster help me restored that love that was always there. That is how i know every of this comment is true. Not everybody will believe this more over its just something on the internet but my heart knows every of this word that formed this entire comment is true. Living Metodo contact for those who believes me and needs help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

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  about 2 months ago

Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one. Well i think i found the right spell caster Metodo. I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can't get more really that what am writing now. I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am a south African woman here in south African as a matter of fact in Africa having a male child is like the most important thing in a marriage and it turned out that i am married to a very traditional man as in a he believes the male child carry the family name on and on but the females get married and change there name which is true. I were married for six years and i had no male child for him. Maybe friends and family filled his head with a lot of things like i don't have a male child for him and as a result he need to get a divorce and get another wife that can bear him a male child. I always thought the people that filled his head with this ideas where is family and friends the people that i smile and dine with. The very people who ought to have advice him rightly. I never found out if they where involved in wanting to ruin life and my marriage. Not because i could not find out but cost i didn't want to develop hatred for them cos i will always get to see them and it is not really healthy seeing the faces of people you hate. At that time, i mean before i knew my husband got himself a lover i was paranoid about him having a lover cos our lives changed a lot he starting coming home late he wouldn't touch me any more and even he started avoiding me in our home making up excuses to stay all day in his study room doing nothing and telling me his need something off to clear his head. We had fights all the time i brought up the matter if he was see someone else. Maybe he got tired of lying i don't know he finally asked for a divorce. A divorce my family saw him through his university and got him a got job i told myself and now he's asking me for a divorce cos i don't a male child yet for him. He was ready to let go of his three beautiful daughters he asked that i take them along. Maybe he was a real f**l and didn't know what he had and maybe he didn't deserve someone like me but one thing was crystal clear to me i was still in love with him and i wanted a complete family for my kid that and the fact that i raised him from the gutter i didn't care about any of his problem when i married him and i forgot to say my father never approved our marriage but still i jumped into it thinking we are going to have each other forever. Though we are still together now but its cos of the spell i had metodo cast on him to make him see how much he needs me in this life. When i contacted metodo he asked that i get the materials for the spell which i did and delivered the materials to him in person that is to say i came in contact with him. I was to return in to his temple in 7 seven day and within those seven day he gave me a blessed a red candle asking that i command and say whatever i wanted every night within those seven days which i did on the seventh day when i returned to metodo temple he gave a harmless powerful substance with instruction on how to use it. This might seem like fiction or lie or what ever you lucky reads may think but deep down you know it true you just looking for a way not to get involved. I ve got my husband back and my family life couldn't be better thanks to the spell though i don't have a male child for him at least his them lover bore him one. contact him with his email if you want his help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

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  about 3 months ago

I saw a testimony of Nadezhda Vyacheslav on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don't know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn't believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn't ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up. Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn't find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn't catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn't so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said "the spell does become effective at once that " she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again.We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { godsofosunx@rocketmail. com }

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  about 4 months ago

I have been reading about spell casting and its powers for a while but i never thought or it never occurred to me or i rather say that it happened that i never got myself in any situation that will make need the help of a spell caster.I read a lot of testimony on the internet on web pages, blog, and some on the face book page of some web site i linked with my Facebook with.I just wanted to know how it worked so i tried.I have always had a thing for this guy or i would say i liked this guy but he was kind of a mess cos of the lost of his wife.Contacting MUTTON OSUN was really easy for me cos all those other article had an email address i could use to contact him.Any way i was not allowed to tell any one till i have seen the result and important he told me i needed some materials for the spell casting.I guess he made some kind of harmless powdery substance with those materials and sent them over to me.He asked that i follow this instructions on how to make the spell active which i did.I must warn you it take at least two day to be effective cos it was after two days the man that never talks to me knocked at my door asking if i would like to watch movies with him at his place form there we kicked off.We have been together for 4 months now and still counting he is a really nice man i can am the luckiest woman in the world.I mean this only means that what MUTTON did is working and it changed both our life for good.I will also leave his mail here you contact purpose >> godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 4 months ago
nameme  

My name is really not important here cos all i can say is that if you need a spell caster to help you with your problem then the best one is MUTTON OSUN. He is the only reliable spell caster i know. I am composing this comment to pin the fact that MUTTON OSUN has also helped me. After six years of marriage it hard to really understand when your wife is see another man and asking for a divorce just so see can be with him. It so hard for me cos i thought we were doing fine. Maybe i was too blind that i didn't know something was wrong with us or i wasn't giving her the attention she needed. Which ever which way there was something that i knew,she was breaking my heart and i still loved her with my life. I know people may probably say it unlike a man but i lost my virginity to her and sine then there have been no other in my life but her. I gave up everything for her My family, and everything and everyone that wanted us not to be. I was ready to let her go i left our house and her new painter boyfriend moved in.They turned my private store room to his art studio and started sharing my bed with my wife. He was practically living my life for me cos everything i had in our house was converted to his. Before i even thought of spell casting i tried the memory lane method but she was not even willing to talk to me for more than a minute or even have a bit with me it was almost like she was allergic to me after five years of marriage. The thought of another man making love to my wife consumed me i lost focus and was totally confused on what to do. I remember drowning myself with bottles of vodka to kill the pain and try to forget her but i pass out and wake up thinking about her. Just when i thought i needed to get rid of of my cheating wife with the help on the internet, i came across a lot of comment on how MTTON OSUN has helped to get exes back so at that moment i was no longer thinking of how to get rid of her instead i was thinking and willing to do anything just to have my wife back. When i contacted the spell caster that is MUTTON OSUN with the email i saw on the comment he called me, after i made him understand my problem. He told me he was sad for me cos i left my whole world and family for her. He asked that i get some materials i can disclose but it nothing to worry about cos they are totally harmless. I felt it was gonna be hard to send them down to him so i gave him the money for the materials. After two days he sent me a package containing my spell. He instructed me on how to make it effective and i swear on my dead sister grave the spell made my wife mine again,Its was so supernatural how it happened i can't just explain from how she left the painter and everything beats my imagination all i know is that MUTTON OSUN spell is was powerful enough to get me my wife back. Contact him here for solution to your own problem godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 7 months ago

My wife has accused me of a lot of things in our years of marriage some of those accusation were true and i admitted to doing them but am to much in love with her to give her an s.t.d. She was down to end our marriage cos she believed i gave an s.t.d. She had a good reason to believe that cos of late i haven't been the best husband. Thank God that s@@t was clarified in the Trisha show that i was not responsible for the s.t.d. She was in love with me as i was in love with her. Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. We never really got along. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. After the show she was more down to live me. She asked that i move out of the house filled for a divorce and all. I could not let her go just like that.I got desperate and i panicking so i used a spell to get her back i know most people don't believe and you may call me crazy but it worked for me. I found a comment on internet about this spell caster Metodo Ell. The comment said he doesn't do spell for those who are not meant to be together. All i needed for the spell were materials to get the spell done. I could not get them so i paid him to get them for me since he is the expert in this stuff. As far as i can tell that s$$t worked cos all my marriage problem just fall off my shoulder and my stepson is cool with me now. If you want to get him to cast a spell for you contact him here with this email address metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com he could also do a direct spell maybe it meant cost a little more than mine i don't know him only can tell you that.

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  about 8 months ago

As bizarre as using a spell to get close to the one you care about my sound to you all,its something you think of when you run out of option of what to do.And as a fact that i know, most of us are will to go to the extreme to get the person they care about close to them.Well in my case i fell in love with my neighbor wife.She was had it all i mean everything a man want and was in a loveless marriage.We started seeing each other, going out on romantic dates, of course no one knew about us and soon it was a love affair a passionate one but she was not will to live her husband cos she was scared of love.But then after 18 months of trying to convince and make her know an the guy she want to be with, i contacted MUTTON OSUN for help to make her live her loveless marriage.He help me but i had to provide some materials at three different stage of the spell casting. It took 7 days to be effective and all that. In the she left her loveless husband and since then we have been together it been a year now. If you may want to contact him use this email address godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 9 months ago
stella6  

My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO. com so I had to contact him and in just 4days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man I got married to.I cant thank the spell caster enough what what he did for me, I am so grateful. I even spoke to the spell caster over the phone, to confirm his existence. His email again is: LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO. com

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  about 9 months ago

Hey Ashley i really like the assurance you gave about Dr.Kwale of kwaletemple@gmail. com you really make me beleive in his love binding spell. i want you to know that after reading your blog about Dr.Kwale i decided to contact him to help me bring my boyfriend back to my arms and after Dr.Kwale has cast the spell for me my boyfriend came back to me after 2days.

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  about 11 months ago

My whole life i ve never had a stable relationship all men come get want they and go. As a matter of fact i saw myself as tool for all men. I don't no its like i was just not loveable no matter how i give my all to them they end up living me with nothing but a broken heart. All these bad relationship i had experienced led to a psyhcological breake down thank my star that i got through that. Finding a man was never hard for me they just all wanted sex with me and once they get it, they all live but for the first time i found one that was willing to stay. I seeked advice and help if they could i even checked the internet for solution which endded up being a waste of time. However, i saw articles or rather comments of a lot of persons who used spell casting to fix their relationship and some it get those who they loved to see how much they loved them. And they all kept referring to a paticular spell caster mutton osun. At first i just ingnored it but my lover came across those article also. After we talked about it we desided to contact him and asked if he cud in any way help us. He just and only asked us to provide some really weird materials that just thinking if it made me scared not like they were harmful its just that i was not used to this things. We ie me and my lover desided that we sould asked him to get them with what we sent to him ie, money. We asked him to cast a spell to make ,y lover wife set him free and he did as we asked and it walked i know cos 12 hours before he said he has completed the spell, she was still very much not going to sign any divorce papper but after thecompletation of the spell all we did was give her the papper and without a fight he signed it. I know its hard to belief only the people close to us know how true this is. lets just say you want to contact use this email address godsofosunx@rockemail. com

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  about 1 year ago
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