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How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Think You're Back Together
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If you're desperately trying to get your ex girlfriend back into your arms from another guy, it can be tough to figure out what the right steps are to take. Sometimes your ex might be really angry at you, especially if the relationship went sour towards the end. The good news is that it's usually NEVER too late to get back with your ex girlfriend if you use a special technique to make your ex girlfriend think you're back together again.

The way to do this technique is first to establish to her that you have accepted your breakup. You need towrite her a quick letter detailing your thoughts about the breakup, but these thoughts NEED to be positive. You need to let her know you are mature enough and kind enough to get yourself and your life back in order even though she has broken up with you.

This letter basically “clears the air” to make it possible for you to administer the Instant Reconnect Technique, which makes her think you're back together.

You won't be able to do this technique until you have actually gotten her in a situation where you're alone together again, but this won't be as hard as you think. Basically you're going to wait for her to contact YOU, asking you how your life is going, how things are progressing for you, etc. (You can also use this technique if she comes to pick her stuff up from your house, or whatever).

The key is that when you are finally alone together, you need to isolate certain rituals, behaviors, and things that the two of you did together that were unique to you as a couple. This will trigger that familiar place in her mind (hopefully a good one) that makes her think you're back together. But you have to be careful with this technique as it is extremely powerful and if you screw it up, you may end up with the “we had sex too soon in the reconciliation process” dilemma that most couples getting back together face.

As long as you administer the correct steps to get her back throughout the process of reconciliation with your ex, you can often get her back into your arms sooner than you might think possible. The key is to be kind and forgiving, and to get her thoughts AWAY from the breakup and more towards a positive relationship with you.


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