If you are looking to win back your ex-boyfriend, there are a few things that you need to know in order to be successful.

The first thing that you must do is stop contacting him. Being in contact with your ex every day is going to do nothing but remind him of the reasons why he left. So, stop calling, or even sending text messages, and leave him alone for several weeks. This means that he will probably start to miss having you as part of his life, and may begin to wonder why the relationship actually came to an end.

While you are avoiding getting in touch with him, make sure you spend some time looking after yourself. If you want to win him back, you need to make sure that you look good, however shallow that might sound. Take the time to get your hair or nails done, or perhaps buy some new clothes instead. If you look good, even when you don't feel like making the effort, you will be showing him exactly what he is missing. Even if he doesn't see you out and about, his friends might, and word will get back to him about how well you seem to be doing.

This is a perfect chance for you to try any new hobbies you have been thinking about, but never found the time to do during your relationship. Keeping busy will be a way of showing that you don't need him in your life, which, strangely, will have the effect of making him want you more. Don't be surprised if he actually does make that phonecall and ask you out.

Don't chase after him - if you really want to win him back and keep him, you should let him make the first move. Patience is something you will need, it may take a while for him toget in touch with you. Once that happens, you should also remember to take it slowly within your new relationship. Yes, you already know each other, but if you want things to work on your second time around, then take your time.

You can get your ex-boyfriend back, by showing him exactly what he is missing and getting him to want you in his life again. However, you will need to let him get in touch with you and tell you that this is what he wants, otherwise you may end up pushing him further away.