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How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back Again - Top Rules
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How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back Again  -  Top Rules

If you've just been dumped by your now-ex-boyfriend, you're going to be looking for all the help you can get to win your ex boyfriend back again. You're in luck. Despite all the advice you may be getting from your friends or all the handy revenge tips available in magazines and online, you can turn the breakup on its head - and it is possible to win an ex boyfriend back.

You need to act quickly and intelligently. Making snap judgments are not going to give you the huge payoff you're looking for. Instead of waiting for a magic potion to show up via friendly dwarf like a Disney fairy tale, read up on your options. Don't just make the first move - make the smart move. You may be surprised at how much it helps your chances in the end.

Give Yourself Permission to Play

It can be hard to get back into the swing of things after a breakup but it's a vital part of the process if you want to use jealousy to your advantage. No guy wants to watch his ex-girlfriend move on without him. His pride has probably given him the impression that he was responsible for your happiness and that finding it without him will take a long time. Show him how wrong he was - about a lot of things he believed. Throw yourself into life and live it up to the fullest. He's going to hear about it from mutual friends and you're going to be a part of his thoughts in a big way.

Build Yourself Up

Falling to pieces is a part of the breakup process, but it's not one that will get you any closer to your ex-boyfriend. Instead of tearing yourself down and finding all of your flaws, look at the positive. You're a confident, attractive and humorous woman - all of those things just got lost in the shuffle when he broke up with you. They're not gone for good. The faster you can uncover them and bring them to light, the faster you can guarantee that your ex is going to take notice. After all, that's the girl he fell in love with. It would be impossible for him not to notice - or play it off like it doesn't matter. It does matter - to him and a lot other guys as well.

Show Yourself Off and Spark Interest from Others

With your new and renewed attitude fully in place, you're going to be getting a lot of attention from the opposite sex. You could probably take your pick out of a whole host of suitors and if you rejoin the dating pool again, your ex is going to be forced to take note. Whether or not the idea of getting you back had crossed his mind before, it's certainly crawling around his head now. He probably never imagined that you'd start seeing someone new and he won't be prepared for the realization that he might have watched you walk out of his life for good.

Work on Renewal

Working out and getting in shape is one of the best ways to take your mind off of a bad breakup - and it's a great time to plan your next moves. With every step you take on that treadmill, you're getting closer to having your ex-boyfriend right back where you want him - next to you and in your arms again. He was attracted to you from the very beginning and it's a great time to remind him why. Show up in a brand new dress and watch his jaw hit the floor at how incredible you look. Nothing is going to pick up your spirits like seeing him ogle you the way he used to.

Forget a Friendship

If you sincerely want a renewed, romantic relationship with your ex-boyfriend and to get him back, then the friendship route is not going to help you. While it may be possible to move from romance to friendship, going the other way around is a lot more difficult - if not downright impossible. You don't want your ex free to see any girl that catches his eye while you're left sitting on the sidelines. Take a proactive approach and tell him that friendship simply isn't an option. If he's expecting you to just go along with his idea, he's got another think coming.

Show Him You're not Waiting By the Phone

If you really want your ex-boyfriend to start sweating, don't answer the phone when he calls you for the first time. Show him that he somehow lost the control of this situation by taking the power back yourself. While you can't control his choices and actions, you can control yours and there is no rule on the books that say that you have to answer the phone before it ever has a chance to ring. By allowing the call to be picked up by voicemail, you're letting him know where he stands - and that means he's going to have to work at it to get you back on his side.

Take a While to Reconcile

As hard as it may be to avoid starting a relationship right away, you need to allow it to grow over time. Face the reality that things ended for a reason and going back to the way things used to be does nothing to resolve any of those lingering issues. You and your ex need to have some conversations that may not be easy but they will be the foundation for a successful, lasting relationship.

If you have reached the stage of winning back your ex boyfriend it doesn't necessarily mean that you will keep him. If you rush things it could spell disaster for you so please take your time and move slowly.

Your Next Steps

Your work is not done because you have to understand some things about male psychology. Your first port of call is to make him want you back. Nothing is going to change if he doesn't want you, so you have to make this happen. You should also be aware of signs he still likes you. Your ex boyfriend will be giving off signals about the way he really feels so you have to spot them.

Street Talk


i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 6 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 3 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted templeofgreatspell@yahoo. com for the return of my husband to me,he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 3days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Okoase casted on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Okoase for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back thier husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr Okoase on his email address via: templeofgreatspell@yahoo. com . and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. ANGELA BRUSE

  about 9 years ago

I had doubts about magic spells but after i met Dr. Wicca, my story and my life turn around. I have tried different casters.. Some of them never answered me after I paid and were obvious scammers, some really cast a spell but for some reason it didn't work. Then I saw a video on you tube with a person who was mentioning she had results with Dr. Wicca then i decided to give spells a try. It's probably the best decision I ever made in my life because it worked and my girlfriend came back into my life and i have a good job now and its a great thing he did in my life. If you're looking for a good spell caster look no further, Dr. Wicca surpass all other spell casters, believe me! Email him on dr.wiccahightemple@gmail. com or facebook. com/wicca.temple Frank, USA

  about 9 years ago

i need to share this with whole world is my story since january this year i cant get over one guy who was for a year in relatioship with me and than ..lost his interest...well on the other side i end it up badly hurt and medly in love ...i found Dr Okoase and ask him to cast spell for is extreamely complicated all this waiting time was terrible for me i was bothering Dr Okoase with patetic mails stupid questions and he was always there to reply to help to sugesst another sollution ...It was not easy for me but still i think i go over a line and used his patiency so so much ...and then when i was thinking everything is lost i got his text...he regret it all and he want me back....i m shocked and bit lost ..dont know what is a next but THIS MAN MANAGE BORN AGAIN ALREADY TOTALY DED STORY..TO BRING ME BACK IN TO A LIFE ...thank you Dr Okoase for everything you have done for me i will always ask for your help in advice with all obstacles in my life thank you for beeng trully here for me ..please contact this great spell caster on his email address: templeofgreatspell@gmail. com cause truely he is a great one. Veno Whyte

  about 9 years ago
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