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I Want My Ex Back    -    Where Do I Start?

Learn clever techniques to make your ex desire you and be crazy for you again. If you want your ex back again then you will have to understand the human psyche and how to make yourself attractive to them again.

Whatever the reasons were behind your break up, there is always hope that you can reunite. If you want your ex back then you will have some work ahead, it just doesn't happen over night I'm afraid. You have probably heard lots of people discouraging you from even attempting to get your ex back. They likely have your best interests at heart and do not want to see you get hurt even more. But what if you do not want to move on? Some people know that their ex is the one for them and if this is the case you should fight for them, life is too short.

Where Do I Start?

First thing that you must do is give you and your ex some space. It may be some time since your break up, and this means that your approach will need to be somewhat different. Assuming that your break up was in the recent past, you will need to work out what went wrong in your relationship, the reasons why your ex broke up with you and a plan for your next moves.

You will want to look out for signs that your ex is still interested in you first, this will give you an inkling on what chance you have. Look at the signs below, these will be good indicators that your ex is missing you and wants you back too.

  • Does your ex make excuses to contact you?
  • Do they bump into you a lot?
  • Are they trying hard to make themselves look busy or happy?
  • Are they trying to make you jealous?
  • Do they bring up the past?
  • Do they get nervous in your company?
  • Do they remember special dates like your birthday?
  • Do they ask friends about you?

These are just some of the signs that you should be looking out for. Don't worry if your ex is not outwardly showing these signs though, they could be very good at hiding their feelings and building up walls to protect themselves.

Creating A Need For You

Let's face it, if you thinking 'I want my ex back' you will have to make your ex need you, or at least feel like they do. This is a lot easier to do than you think. When you take yourself out of your ex's life completely they will suddenly realise that you are not there for them anymore. Sometimes this created feelings of fear and vulnerability in your ex as they has not expected this. They just assumed that you would always be around in some way, even if it was just as a friend.

You will need to take this distance thing one step further to really intensify your ex's feelings of fear and subtly pull them back towards you. We all know that it is very easy to stay in touch with people nowadays on facebook etc. In fact, we can keep an eye on what people are doing without even communicating with them. This is what your ex is relying on, the ability to check up on you online, so that they still feel a part of your life. This is why you need to stop posting or updating your facebook profile for a few weeks. You could also change your privacy settings so that your ex does not see your wall etc, better still, temporarily delete your profile until you get your emotions under control.

When they can't see what you are doing, they will get desperate and want some contact with you, this is when they will end up texting or phoning you because the need will be too much. Watch out for when this happens as you are onto a winner here.

I hope that you have seen that the most effective strategies are simple ones, they do not involve a lot of work on your part, but rely on human psychology, turning the tables on your ex and making them do the running. When you are not around you will be viewed as scarce, and we all know that we value that which is scarce. You will also find that their feelings of attraction grow towards you in this period because you are creating an air of mystery about you, just like at the beginning of your relationship. Most people who adamantly say 'I want to get my ex back' use these techniques with fast results, you can too.

Your Next Step

These are just two of the strategies that you should start with if you want to get ex back. There are many more tactics that you need to learn and are targeted towards specific situations. These techniques are based on human behaviour and understanding what goes on in the head of the opposite sex. When you get these two things right, you have a lot of power and will begin to see how easy it is to get your ex back.

First thing is first though, it would be a good idea to read the signs ex is over you and then you will be able to know where you stand, no one wants to be making a fool of themselves trying to chase someone who just isn't interested. Another very effective way to get your ex back is through Facebook. There are loads of ingenious Facebook techniques that you can use to pull your ex back towards you, make them highly attracted to you and regret the break up. Check them out for yourself and good luck!


Street Talk

I saw a testimony of Nadezhda Vyacheslav on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don't know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn't believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn't ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up. Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn't find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn't catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn't so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said "the spell does become effective at once that " she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again.We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { godsofosunx@rocketmail. com }

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  about 8 years ago

I have been reading about spell casting and its powers for a while but i never thought or it never occurred to me or i rather say that it happened that i never got myself in any situation that will make need the help of a spell caster.I read a lot of testimony on the internet on web pages, blog, and some on the face book page of some web site i linked with my Facebook with.I just wanted to know how it worked so i tried.I have always had a thing for this guy or i would say i liked this guy but he was kind of a mess cos of the lost of his wife.Contacting MUTTON OSUN was really easy for me cos all those other article had an email address i could use to contact him.Any way i was not allowed to tell any one till i have seen the result and important he told me i needed some materials for the spell casting.I guess he made some kind of harmless powdery substance with those materials and sent them over to me.He asked that i follow this instructions on how to make the spell active which i did.I must warn you it take at least two day to be effective cos it was after two days the man that never talks to me knocked at my door asking if i would like to watch movies with him at his place form there we kicked off.We have been together for 4 months now and still counting he is a really nice man i can am the luckiest woman in the world.I mean this only means that what MUTTON did is working and it changed both our life for good.I will also leave his mail here you contact purpose >> godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 8 years ago
nameme  

My name is really not important here cos all i can say is that if you need a spell caster to help you with your problem then the best one is MUTTON OSUN. He is the only reliable spell caster i know. I am composing this comment to pin the fact that MUTTON OSUN has also helped me. After six years of marriage it hard to really understand when your wife is see another man and asking for a divorce just so see can be with him. It so hard for me cos i thought we were doing fine. Maybe i was too blind that i didn't know something was wrong with us or i wasn't giving her the attention she needed. Which ever which way there was something that i knew,she was breaking my heart and i still loved her with my life. I know people may probably say it unlike a man but i lost my virginity to her and sine then there have been no other in my life but her. I gave up everything for her My family, and everything and everyone that wanted us not to be. I was ready to let her go i left our house and her new painter boyfriend moved in.They turned my private store room to his art studio and started sharing my bed with my wife. He was practically living my life for me cos everything i had in our house was converted to his. Before i even thought of spell casting i tried the memory lane method but she was not even willing to talk to me for more than a minute or even have a bit with me it was almost like she was allergic to me after five years of marriage. The thought of another man making love to my wife consumed me i lost focus and was totally confused on what to do. I remember drowning myself with bottles of vodka to kill the pain and try to forget her but i pass out and wake up thinking about her. Just when i thought i needed to get rid of of my cheating wife with the help on the internet, i came across a lot of comment on how MTTON OSUN has helped to get exes back so at that moment i was no longer thinking of how to get rid of her instead i was thinking and willing to do anything just to have my wife back. When i contacted the spell caster that is MUTTON OSUN with the email i saw on the comment he called me, after i made him understand my problem. He told me he was sad for me cos i left my whole world and family for her. He asked that i get some materials i can disclose but it nothing to worry about cos they are totally harmless. I felt it was gonna be hard to send them down to him so i gave him the money for the materials. After two days he sent me a package containing my spell. He instructed me on how to make it effective and i swear on my dead sister grave the spell made my wife mine again,Its was so supernatural how it happened i can't just explain from how she left the painter and everything beats my imagination all i know is that MUTTON OSUN spell is was powerful enough to get me my wife back. Contact him here for solution to your own problem godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 8 years ago
stella6  

After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO. COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

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  about 8 years ago

I hate to say this i have to cos even of it feels wrong its something i had to do.Some people say if a door closes another opens but i say that is just a fancy way of dealing with the pain we feel cos really if we loss something or someone so dear, we can never really get a replacement cos nothing will ever seem to fit.Well that was just how i felt when my wife wanted out of a eleven years marriage with beautiful kids. As ashamed and as sorry as i am, it was all my fault. I made our marriage almost come to an end but glade it didn't all thinks to Mutton Osun a magic guy or rather spell caster as most people call it online.Its amazing how one mistake can take away all you have worked hard for in just a blink. Just a moment of weakness that made me cheat on my wife, would have been the end of all my happiness and my family. It didn't stay hidden for so long she found out and she lost it all i saw it clearly she still loved me so much cos in her eyes all i could see was deep pain and a thick cut in her heart even when she kicked me out and wanted a divorce. I loved this woman with all my heart heart and was really not going to let her go. As i said i asked a spell caster Mutton Osun to help me restore my marriage and my life cos really he was my last option to happiness again. His spell made the subconscious of her that always loved me selflessly surface again as he explained what ever he did help a lot as other article i read about him said, he only asks for materials for the spell and if it may arise extra money to ship the spell package to you. He is honest and trustworthy one of the only good help out there. IF you may contact do it with this email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 8 years ago

I hate to say this i have to cos even of it feels wrong its something i had to do.Some people say if a door closes another opens but i say that is just a fancy way of dealing with the pain we feel cos really if we loss something or someone so dear, we can never really get a replacement cos nothing will ever seem to fit.Well that was just how i felt when my wife wanted out of a eleven years marriage with beautiful kids. As ashamed and as sorry as i am, it was all my fault. I made our marriage almost come to an end but glade it didn't all thinks to Mutton Osun a magic guy or rather spell caster as most people call it online.Its amazing how one mistake can take away all you have worked hard for in just a blink. Just a moment of weakness that made me cheat on my wife, would have been the end of all my happiness and my family. It didn't stay hidden for so long she found out and she lost it all i saw it clearly she still loved me so much cos in her eyes all i could see was deep pain and a thick cut in her heart even when she kicked me out and wanted a divorce. I loved this woman with all my heart heart and was really not going to let her go. As i said i asked a spell caster Mutton Osun to help me restore my marriage and my life cos really he was my last option to happiness again. His spell made the subconscious of her that always loved me selflessly surface again as he explained what ever he did help a lot as other article i read about him said, he only asks for materials for the spell and if it may arise extra money to ship the spell package to you. He is honest and trustworthy one of the only good help out there. IF you may contact do it with this email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 8 years ago

Dear Doc obodo, Thank you for your patience with me during my custom spell casting. During the middle for February my long time on again off again girlfriend broke up with me. She had some major problems going on in her life at the time and I was receiving some of the blame for them and she just felt it would be better if we were not together. And in typical fashion she handled the break up poorly and completely ignored me as she always did during prior break ups. I also had 2 recent deaths in my family (1 happened before we broke up and the other happened about 2 months later). So I had a lot of stress going on in my life. I hired Spells from Doc Obodo @ templeofanswer@hotmail .co .uk around the middle of February; they had a money back guarantee which made me feel that they must be good at what they do. So I went into this thinking that I would have my ex back in about 4 weeks. Well as time dragged on I started to feel as if this was not going to work at all. During all of this she moved, her phone number was disconnected and I thought this was over for good. In fact I decided that I had better get used to being single again and I tried to forget about her. I started hanging out with my friends more, I even wrote to Lilly requesting my money back. Lilly told me that she felt that this would work, that I had to remain positive and she felt that things would turn around. Throughout all of this Lilly always would amazingly get back to me quickly when I would send her an e-mail, usually within a few hours of the email being sent. As I had been pretty negative about this throughout most of the last 4 weeks I decided to follow her advice and let them continue casting for me. I completely tried to put my ex out of my mind as best I could and kept myself pretty busy, something that I had not done much of since we had broken up. Memorial Day night she called me and told me that she wanted us back together, that she missed me a lot, and that I had to let her know right then and there as we were on the phone if we were going to get back together. I was shocked, each time we did get back together before it was always me that made the 1st move; never had she made the 1st move. We have seen each other almost every night since then and things are getting back to where they used to be. I have to tell you it’s still really hard to believe. She is pretty nervous talking around me sometimes since we have gotten back together and I notice that she is trying to be careful not to say or do the wrong things.you can reach Doc Obodo personal cell @ +2348155425481 if you want to talk to him Tim – Long Beach, CA, USA

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  about 8 years ago
michell32  

HI My Name is Jennifer , I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called dr ABULU of( abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo .com has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called James we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get he back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo .com) then you wont believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother a baby girl, thank you once again the great ABULU for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail (abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo. com or and he will also help you as well.

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  about 9 years ago
RICKY BEN  

Hello everyone i'm Ricky by name, i want to tell of a spell caster that brought my ex back to me after i contacted him last week, he made my ex to come back to me within 2days his spell really work fast on my case. he made it possible for me to get my girlfriend back, she is the joy of my heart and Dr kwale has given me the joy of my heart, i am really grateful to him that i why i want everyone that need help on how to get his or her ex back to quickly contact Dr Kwale via his email address kwaletemple@gmail. com and his mobile number is +2348056141089 Ricky Ben U.S.A NEW YORK

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  about 9 years ago
RICKY BEN  

Hello everyone i'm Ricky by name, i want to tell of a spell caster that brought my ex back to me after i contacted him last week, he made my ex to come back to me within 2days his spell really work fast on my case. he made it possible for me to get my girlfriend back, she is the joy of my heart and Dr kwale has given me the joy of my heart, i am really grateful to him that i why i want everyone that need help on how to get his or her ex back to quickly contact Dr Kwale via his email address kwaletemple@gmail. com and his mobile number is +2348056141089 Ricky Ben U.S.A NEW YORK

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  about 9 years ago
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