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Making Your Ex Miss You - How It's Done
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When you are still madly in love with your ex, being apart can be absolute torture. You look back on the relationship that you once had and wonder where it all went wrong. When you remember the good times you are struck by sadness simply because those times are a world away from where you are right now.

The good news is that you can get the person you love back, but first you have to make them long for you again. If you acquire the right knowledge, and go about using it in the correct way then making your ex miss you will not be such a daunting task.

Your Ex Won't Want You Back Before They Miss You

That makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Your ex wont want you back in their life until they reach the point where he/she misses you. You have to understand that this will not happen overnight, it will take time. If you play your cards right you can speed the process up.

In order to make your ex miss you, you will have to look at the situation from your ex's perspective. What led up to the breakdown of the relationship? How did things change as the relationship progressed? These are questions that you will have to ask yourself. Be honest with yourself, the relationship did not just suddenly sour, there was a lead-up to the breakup.

Your ex fell in love with you for a reason. You will have to isolate the aspects of yourself that your ex fell in love with and accentuate them, bring them back to center stage. You will have to make your ex see the person that they fell in love with again. That said, you will also have to work on identifying and isolating the aspects of your personality that may have contributed to the failure of the relationship. Dealing with those negative aspects of yourself is a worthwhile endeavor, regardless of the situation you are in right now.

Rediscovering The You That Your Ex Fell In Love With

Let's take a step back in time, let's go back to the period where your relationship was just getting started. Remember how you two were inseparable, the fun you had together, the moments where just a look was enough to say "I love you". This was the period of the relationship where both of you were in tune with each other, and both you and your ex were on the same wavelength.

Unfortunately, that did not continue. There came a point in the relationship where one, or both of you stopped putting the effort in. Maybe you became apathetic? Maybe you stopped caring about things that were important at the start of the relationship? Relationships are like prize rose bushes, they have to be constantly nurtured or they will eventually wither and die.

Try to be the best possible person that you can be. Bring back the side of you that your ex fell in love with. Work on recognizing, then fixing those negative aspects of your personality that you may have been ignoring. If you can remind your ex about just how good you can be then how could they not miss you? Take it one step at a time and you will achieve your goal.

Rekindling And Renewing The Relationship

Yes it is possible, you can mend what is broken and win back your ex. The best part of it is that you have now learned about the mistakes that were made. Every mistake is a mistake worth making if you can learn from it and become a more rounded and thoughtful person as a result. You don't just want the old relationship back! You want a better relationship with the person that you love. You want a new relationship without the baggage of the old one. You want a stronger relationship.

You can make your ex miss you, you can make them want you more than ever. Once your ex realizes that the person they love is back then the way will be clear for moving ahead and relighting the flame. Reversing a breakup is possible if you put yourself in the right frame of mind. Equip yourself with the knowledge to get the job done.

What Do I Now?

Being dumped is probably one of the worst things that can happen in a persons life, it is never easy, the people who say "get over it" don't make it any easier. You fight to get back the person that you love because the person that you love is worth fighting for.

Knowing how to avoid making breakup mistakes is the first step on the road towards getting your relationship back. What is important now is gaining the skills needed to take it to the next level. Just like Rome wasn't built in a day a broken relationship cannot be put back together overnight.


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