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Making Your Ex Miss You With Human Psychology
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Making Your Ex Miss You With Human Psychology

Making your ex miss you is a powerful tool in your arsenal for getting them back. The trouble is that most people get the steps very wrong. This is because they act on emotions rather than common sense. This is entirely natural after a break up and very human. However, acting emotionally, hitting out at your ex and doing things that you will later regret, will push you farther and farther away from your ultimate goal of getting your ex back.

It is time to take stock of the situation and look at things from your ex's perspective. This means that you need to brush up on the psychology of the opposite sex. The opposite sex behave in a very different way from you after the break up. Likewise different psychological tactics will work on them from the ones that will work on you. Instead of relying on techniques that you believe will make your ex miss you, (i.e. the ones that would work on you), you have to go against this logic sometimes and put yourself in their shoes.

For instance, you might think that by placing yourself in your ex's line of vision will make them realise what they are missing out on. Unfortunately it rarely works like this. When you are always there your ex will never have the opportunity to miss you. You will actually be making the break up a whole lot easier for them in the process. Not only will your ex not have to commit to you, they still have the added bonus of having you around and knowing what you're doing. In essence, they will never fully feed the loss of you in their lives – this is a bad path to go down.

Make your ex miss you – step one

Now is the time to disassociate yourself from your ex completely. You don't have to be rude and ignore them if they try to initiate conversation – that would be counter-productive. Instead you have to remove yourself from any interaction are you currently have with them. This may prove difficult if you work with your ex or are likely to bump into them regularly. Try to come up with solutions we see them as little as possible, then you're less likely to do or say something that you will reflect badly on you.

Make your ex miss you – step two

As well as staying away from your ex physically, you have to avoid them in the virtual world as well. Even though you may feel like updating your Facebook, your ex will know how you're feeling and what you're doing, this is a bad idea. They will know exactly what you're trying to do – get a reaction or attention from them.

Even if you're not directly messaging your ex, they will know that your updates are for their benefit. It will be glaringly obvious to them that you have too much time on your hands and that you're not really over them. You might think that you're being subtle, but your ex will be extra sensitive to what you say and do after the break up. You did not want to risk the danger of making your ex see you as desperate or pathetic – there is no way that they will miss you if this is the case.

Make your ex miss you – step three

This step is an important one because it will remind your ex how much you mean to them and they will start seeing you as attractive again. Remember that you're trying to be someone that your ex will miss here. That means that you have to rediscover who you were before you and your ex got together – this is the person that they fell for and will begin.

To be someone that your ex will miss you have to redeem your self respect. If you don't respect yourself then your ex won't either. It is hard to see your self worth after a break up because you feel rejected. You will need to get your confidence back though and reclaim the person that you were before. This will make your ex sit up and take notice of you again and start to wonder if the breakup was a good idea after all.

Your Next Steps

Now that you understand some of the fundamental steps involved in making your ex miss you, it is time to implement other techniques to make your ex want you. When you know how to use psychological triggers to make your ex react in a certain way, you can gently encourage them to miss you and realise that the break up was a mistake after all.

You also need to know where you really stand by reading the signs ex still loves you. They may be hiding how they're really feeling, but you can decipher their behaviour to find out the truth. This will save a lot of embarrassment and upset.


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