It's a safe assumption that if you are reading this your relationship has ended in a breakup. At the moment you probably feel awful. A sense of loss, anger, guilt and confussion have massed together to make life miserable. But, despite all these bad feelings, deep inside you continually think about how to get your girl back. While no relationship is perfect, you've come to the conclusion what your girl meant to you and you want to work things out with with her.

For starters, something that you should know is that over 90% of relationships are fixable.ith that being said, you'll have take action on a good proven plan and do whatever is necassary to patch things up. If your still in love with her and want your best girl back, you now have the motavation to do the things you need to do to get her back. It is a possibility, but not always easy.

You will have to uncover what went wrong, no matter how painful you feel about looking back into your past relationship with her. Be careful. You have to look deeper than the surface, do not assume the the surface issues are the problem. In all likelyhood, the stuff you are most aware of are just symptoms of a deeper issue. An example would be you think you broke up because you argued too much. But the reality is arguments are rarely to blame. You need to go deeper, to the roots of what is causing the arguements to begin with. Were you jealous or controlling? Maybe that is the cause of the disagreements between you. Whatever the cause is, keep digging until you know what the real problem is.

Once you understand the causes that broke both of you up, you can find solutions to correct the mistakes. If you think you could have done several things better, get busy and correct those issues by improving yourself. Be ready to offer forgiveness to your ex, because you can not change them, only yourself. Most likely if they want the relationship to survive they have made their own personality improvements, just do not assume they have.

Once you have things worked out, get in contact with your ex girlfriend. Your first objective is to arrange a meeting where you both feel comfortable and have a face-to-face talk with them. Now, this is not a date, this is a meeting to discuss the issue of getting back together. Just be polite and on your best behavior and do not force things to happen.

Once you both are talking, be respectful, that is important. This meeting is not about who waqs right or who was wrong. As a gude line, do not discuss past issues unless it will help you both be happier in the future. Stick to that rule and you will get your girl back and she will be back at your side.