The end of a relationship is always difficult, but it is even harder to deal with when all you really want is to get back together with your ex. Firstly, though, you need to think about why the relationship ended, and whether there was anything that you could perhaps have done differently. It is possible that once the two of you were in a relationship, you changed from the woman he originally fell in love with as you became more comfortable together. Rediscover who you were prior to the relationship, and you will have taken the first step towards making him want you back.

Take time to do all the things that you enjoyed before you met him, and perhaps gave up during the time you were together. If you begin to enjoy yourself and make the most of the opportunities in your life, this is a perfect way to show him exactly what he is missing. This is the woman he originally fell in love with, and chances are he will discover that he is still interested in being with you.

The next step is to give him time and space. Many women make the mistake of contacting their ex on a regular basis, hoping to get back together. What you need to do is exactly the opposite. Stop calling and sending those text messages or emails. If he doesn't hear from you for a while, it is far more likely that he will start to miss you, which is what you need him to do. He is also far more likely to respect you for being mature about the situation and for getting on with your life.

After a break-up, it is extremely common for women to take less care with their appearance, and not want to spend the time and effort on looking good. However, if you look after your appearance, you are more likely to attract his attention and get him interested in you once again. Perhaps treat yourself to a new hairstyle, clothes, or even something as simple as a manicure; you will feel better and this will show.

When the two of you begin talking again, don't make the mistake of rushing straight into a relationship. Start by being friends; this means there is less pressure, so you can be yourself and show him exactly what he is missing. If he is looking to get back together, he will let you know.