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Tea And David - They Tried And Tried Again
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Tea And David - They Tried And Tried Again

Tea Leoni and David Duchovny, married in 1997, have had a marriage that outlasted the average for Hollywood weds, but the unusual pressures of celebrity have been taking their toll. After over 10 years, in 2008 they split for a while, but reconciled the following year. Several months into the split, Mr. Duchovny announced he underwent treatment for sex addiction. How does that work? If a guy is famous and good looking like that, he gets an awful lot of opportunities from amazing looking women, so really is it a surprise that he goes off the reservation? Choices need to be limited because men are wired to take opportunity when it presents. Guys can turn it down but if he is in one state working and his wife is in another state, he might be in a vulnerable state. Just saying....

Tea and David did reconcile and he most certainly swore he would never do that again, but they are reportedly splitting again. Divorce and marital separation are always sad and painful for at least one of the two parties, and often both, so I wish them all the best with their healing.

One doesn't have to be a celebrity to be presented with too many opportunities. Or maybe there need not be a lot of offers, since as one t-shirt said, "Lead me not into temptation - I can find it myself." It is human nature to occasionally do the wrong thing. We try not to do it when it is a big deal, usually, but then you and I generally know somebody who decided to just go with it and you can't trust them with anything.

If there is one chestnut I can leave you with, it is this: forgive. Everyone gets wronged. To forgive just means you no longer harbor the anger. This does not necessarily free the wrongdoer from consequences. In fact, it is best that people face the consequences of their actions. To forgive is to free oneself from carrying the burden of vengeance and anger. It is way too heavy a load for anyone to bear. If you are suffering from a breakup, forgive. Seek peace within yourself.

If you have suffered a breakup, you may feel rejected and unwanted. You may even feel as though you are not good relationship material. The way you see yourself is the way others will see you. Let me bear that point home - you show others how to look at you by the way you look at yourself. Stand up inside and embrace your independence. Find things to like about yourself and decide to like these things. Change what you can and accept the rest. This may even make you more likely to get your ex back. Either way you will be better.

To Tea and David, I hate to see the pain. Forgive one another and find a way to do and always do the right thing. You have already reconciled once and experienced the magic of making up, so if you still have the love, try again.


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