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To meet someone you like and who likes a self so much that you want to share all their time together is a dream for many.

From a young age we learn that the life-long love with someone is what we should strive for. Despite this increase in separations and divorces.

It is not easy to live with another man. To share life's joys together is fun, but when difficulties and everyday boredom intrudes on the situation is not as simple. Often we look at other couples around us and think that they seem to have a perfect life. But in reality, most couples through difficult periods at some point in their lives.

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The first time together is usually seen through a rose-colored glasses. You are in love and happy to have met someone that you love so much and who enjoy a same amount back. Sure, there may be little things that annoy you on in the other, but often we overlook those things because everything else is so good.

At the beginning of a relationship do you talk to each other about everything and can sit up all night and discuss life and the universe. We think the same about most things, but respect each others differences because it's part of your personality.

Build a family

Moving up is a big step in a relationship. From having his own room and their time will now share all your time together. It is now the first problems arise. Since all bring with them experience and education from home, we often have ideas about how things should be run. Often we know may not even know why it must be done in just that way, but we've just always done so. When someone else comes and wants to do things differently, we can become irritable and angry.

One piece of advice is to stop and think about why it is so important to do things the way you're used to. Imagine: on my way I just do it. Perhaps there are advantages in the second way as well. Can you compromise, or perhaps you could do differently?

Talk to each other about things you think are wrong, but even if things feel right. Sometimes one forgets to tell it you see all the time that you still feel that he or she is well and doing good things.

Being a parent

Children can take considerable time and effort from the relationship. The time after birth know some women are most often less sexual desire. The partner may feel left out and forgotten. Talk to each other about how you feel. Often, children in the first place and one's own needs come second.

Sometimes it's good to remember that you are not only parents but also a few who have chosen to be with each other. Take some time off from parenting and doing something you enjoy. When children are in their teens, they tend to be experts at turning their parents against each other. As a parent it is important to talk to each other and agree on what position you have to meet various issues.

The most dangerous threats to a relationship

• Lack of communication Talking past each other can lead to many misunderstandings. Try to take the time to tell us how you feel and what you really feel. Remember that no one can read someone else's thoughts.

• Sacrifice Many feel that they sacrifice themselves for the other partner. Think about who you really sacrifice for you, yourself or someone else. Know your partner that you do things for him or her that you do not want?

• Boredom and lead Try to find a balance between doing things together and to develop their own interests. Take time off from everyday life sometimes and do something new. Or take time off work and do something fun together, like going out and picnic or take a trip to a beautiful place.

• To take each other for granted Tell your partner that you still love him and that you are still happy that it was the two of you. Many people forget to show their feelings and take for granted that the other person should be aware of them anyway. Declarations of love, we can never get enough of.

Fractions

Try to choose which kind you want to fight. Stop and ask yourself if it is really worth arguing about just this, or if there is anything you would have laughed at the beginning of the relationship.

• Think about why some things are important to you.

• If many fights about cleaning, you may wonder why it is so important to you. Think about the feelings that are brought inside you and why.

• If you are arguing about the economy, a bank to help with advice.

• Consider how your fights usually looks. Try to arrive at the most important things you think differently about and discuss them at a time when you both have time and energy.

• After an argument, you can write letters to each other where you talk about how you felt. Or write a little letter every week where you talk about things that have happened, as you have thought of or that you felt bad off.

Is romance dead?

Increasingly, we work a lot and have so many other things for us that love is set aside. We blame the problems of being together on the job takes time. Perhaps we simply need to stop for a while and ask ourselves if there really is a lack of time prevents us from addressing the problems of cohabitation. We prefer comfort over romance?

Although technology makes it easier to connect with people, it can also make our feelings are not really visible. It is easy and quick to send an email to someone, but gives the same feeling as a cover letter? Considerate and caring in our daily lives strengthens the bonds between people. Sometimes all it takes small things to change a situation.

When to seek help?

If you feel that your relationship is not good and you feel bad that you can seek help from a psychologist or at family counseling. They can help you and your partner to see what you've done in the relationship and why. Sometimes it helps couples to rediscover each other and sometimes it helps couples realize that they should not be together anymore.

If you lose your partner, it is always possible to get your ex back.

Look for help

Couples who have problems in their relationship and need professional assistance to resolve a crisis can turn to the municipality's family, whose mission is to help couples who have problems in their relationship. They receive all couples, with or without children.


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