If you are looking to get back together with your ex, then there are a number of things you can try that will hopefully get him to not only chase after you again, but make him wonder why he ever let you go in the first place.
Firstly, although it sounds terribly cliche, you will need to play hard to get. After the relationship has ended, do not make the mistake of chasing after him and making it clear that you would like nothing more than to get back together. Instead, don't contact him. Although this can sometimes be difficult, it is the only way that he will begin to realise that he misses having you in his life. If he does get in touch with you again, don't always rush to pick up the phone or reply to that text message. It certainly won't hurt him to wait a while for a response, and it indicates that you are not sitting by the phone, hoping for him to call.
Rediscover who you were before the relationship. Being part of a couple changes people, most noticeably when they give up hobbies that they no longer seem to have the time to do. Go back to doing what you love, and in doing so, you will begin to return to being the woman he fell in love with. Maintaining your own interests throughout a relationship is part of what attracts people to one another, so always make time to do these things.
Spend time out with your friends. If you and your ex live reasonably close to one another, it is likely that you will bump into each other now and again. Let him see that you have accepted the situation and moved on from the relationship (even if you haven't done so), and he will begin to wonder why he left in the first place. Make the effort with your appearance, which is something that many women do not do after a break up, and show him exactly what he is missing.
If you are looking to get back with an ex after the break up of a relationship, then it is important that you are seen as mature and sensible, rather than someone who is constantly calling and trying to talk to him. Phoning or sending texts regularly is almost guaranteed to push him further away, so get him to chase after you instead.
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