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Want My Ex Boyfriend Back - How To Make It Happen
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Want My Ex Boyfriend Back  -  How To Make It Happen

Wanting your ex boyfriend back is normal after a break up, even if it happened ages ago. You have to work out if you want him back for the right reasons though - is it just because you are lonely? If you genuinely love this guy then there are ways to get him back using male psychology, you just have to implement the correct techniques at the right time to be successful.

Many girls have said to themselves: "I want my ex boyfriend back." Many have tried and failed, but some have realised their dream and you can too. Let's start with understanding some of the behaviours that you should be avoiding at this time. When you want your ex boyfriend back again, making these mistakes could make or break your chances of it happening, so read through them all.

Don't Give Him Ultimatums Or Instigate Guilt Trips

Lots of girls get desperate when they are faced with a future without the person that they love. They lash out and do things completely out of character. If he seems like he won't budge, playing dirty can seem like the only option. Girls assume that they can hold onto him this way - out of guilt or fear. Little do they realise that if he stays, he will not respect you and the relationship is bound to fail in the end anyway.

You want someone to be with you out of choice right? So giving him ultimatums or playing the pity card are not going to do you any favours. He will only see you as sad and pathetic - this is no foundation for a lasting and healthy relationship. So the next time you are tempted to lay down the law or make him feel guilty about breaking up with you, stop and think about the long term damage that this could do. That should stop you in your tracks.

Don't Contact Him

Wanting back an ex boyfriend can be an overwhelming experience where you do not feel in control of your senses or actions. It is crucial during this time that you do NOT contact him if you can avoid it. You may work with him or have to see him every day, but they more you try to distance yourself from him, the better it is for you. Every instinct will be fighting against it, but you must exert your willpower here and be strong.

The problem with contacting your ex boyfriend is that it reeks of desperation, he will see that even if you don't. Even seemingly innocent texts to ask him how he is will appear glaringly obvious to him. He will know that you are still hung up on him and that he can get you back whenever he wants - this is unattractive.

What you want to be doing instead is to create desire and mystery, this is what attracted him to you in the first place. That is why staying out of earshot will be hugely beneficial for you. He will begin to wonder where you are and what is keeping you so busy. Secretly he will expect to hear from you - his male ego wants it. When you don't make any attempts to stay in touch with him his ego will take a bashing and his mind will subsequently go into overdrive - where are you? What are you doing? Who are you doing it with? Are you over him already? This may seem unnecessarily cruel, but it is vital if you are to make him interested in you as a potential girlfriend again.

Don't Cyber Stalk Him

You may think that no contact with him is enough - it's not. You also have to cut off any indirect forms of communication from your social networks like Facebook. Going on to check his status and read his updates every day is just bad news. It will make you feel paranoid, you will read into things too much and you will feel an overwhelming desire to poke him or message him - DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN!

You've seen it yourself, desperate jilted lovers frantically commenting on their ex's wall or pretending that everything is brilliant. Posting endless pictures of them out having a good time, or draped around some strange guy. It looks needy and it is. He will notice if you do this too.

What is the point of not texting him and avoiding him, then wipe out all of that work by clinging onto Facebook as a means to stay in his life? Every status that you post or comment that you make will speak volumes to him. He will be checking to see how you are too and he doesn't have to make the effort to contact you if you are constantly updating your profile. He will think that everything you write is directed at him too, so please don't do this. You might also say childish or bitter things when you are hurt, this can make you look unapproachable and highly unattractive. Create mystery by staying off it completely.

It is best to stay off Facebook altogether during this phase. Do not check to see how he is doing, do not update your status or comment on walls for a few weeks. Privately message friends if you have to. The bigger your online presence is, the more your ex boyfriend has you in his life - he will not start to miss you. If he can hold onto any involvement that he can online, he will not feel a void and he can start to get over you gradually. On the other hand, if you suddenly disappear from cyber space and he doesn't know how you are, how you feel, what you are doing etc, he will have no option but to bite the bullet and contact you himself. That is what you want.

Your Next Steps

Now you have to implement powerful get him back techniques to make him see that he made a mistake and that you are the only girl for him. Part of this is centered on using male psychology to your advantage to make him want you back.

You should also be paying close attention to how he feels about you. He will be exhibiting signs he still likes you without even knowing it. You need to interpret what he says and does to know if you have any chance with him.


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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago

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