Just break up with your girlfriend? Maybe it happened some time ago but you still want her back. All day every day you can’t help but ask yourself what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back. I am going to provide you with some tips that can make getting your ex girlfriend back much easier.

So you want to save or bring back your relationship, otherwise you probably would not be reading this article. But you can’t help but feel nervous about trying to get her back, in case you just make things worse. Maybe you already have made things worse by acting in ways in which you shouldn’t have, which has caused her to pull away even more. It is normal and understandable for you ex to resist you even more if you don’t do the right things, and putting lots of pressure on her is sure to make her continue to walk away.

If you are trying to contact her too much, whether it is on the phone, sending IM’s or e-mails, or bombarding her phone with text massages all day, you need to stop these things now. Trying to make your ex girlfriend feel sorry for you is not going to help and will only make her pull away even more.

So, what can you do to get you ex girlfriend back? Use this approach instead.

Odds are if you are reading this you have been doing the wrong things and it is not working. You will need to stop doing what you have been doing, and completely start again. You are going to stop contacting her, and have some time to yourself for a while. Try spending some time improving yourself and your own personal life without worrying about your ex. This can and most likely will be difficult, just take some time away from her, as hard as it is, and try not to turn back to old habits.

The reason why you are going to do this (apart from having some time to yourself) is that your ex girlfriend is going to change how she feels about you, as you are no longer going to be chasing her. You may become a mystery to her in some ways, as she isn’t aware of what you have been doing or feeling. This means that your ex girlfriend may start to miss you, which was impossible before when she couldn’t get away from you.

The key is to stick with it and try to work with her feelings, not against them. You should be beginning to understand what does and doesn’t work and how to avoid mistakes nearly everyone makes when trying to get their ex girlfriend back. This could be the start to getting your ex girlfriend back, getting her to miss you is very important.

So play hard to get (but not too much that she forgets about you), don’t smother her or try to force her to come back to you. Try to let her make the first move, then you are well on your way to getting your ex girlfriend back.