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Why Do I Want My Ex Back?
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Why Do I Want My Ex Back?

It's tough!

Going through a break up can hurt like hell some times, and you'll find yourself wondering if you'll ever get over them.

Time passes, and you still find yourself thinking of your ex partner a good amount of time, and you begin wondering what you can do to get them back. Before embarking on trying to get the ex back, ask yourself “why do I want my ex back?”

Many people find themselves asking this question when in the situation of recovering from a breakup.

Friends and family will most likely be bombarding you with the advice of just let your ex go and move on. Easy advice for people to dish out, but not such an easy thing to do for many of those recovering from a breakup.

Its difficult to let someone, who has become so close to you, go. You're more or less torn in two directions, one part of your brain is saying letting go is the right thing and another part of you wants them back.

If upon finding yourself asking why you want them back, then consider what has transpired between the both of you recently. All sorts of emotions come up because of breaking up, and often you can't think straight or even clearly.

Take the time to clear your mind, so you can see the situation you find yourself in clearly. Gain an understanding of whatever feeling you're experiencing and sort them out into real feelings, of feelings caused by your jumbled up emotional state.

What do you really want to get back?

You need to be asking yourself this question. Is it really your ex you want back, or ,just the idea of a solid relationship? It takes time to build solid relationships and it is devastating to say the least when they fall to pieces.

The emotions you've been experiencing may be caused by your relationship falling apart and not from the feeling of missing your ex.

Is this person really who you want to spend your life with? Or, is it the relationship you're wanting back? Ask yourself these questions and think about your answer. You'll want to search deeply within yourself to find the honest answers.

After seriously thinking things over and getting your mind clear, you'll now know just where you stand. You can sort out the mind tricks cause by your emotions and come to the realization that its not your ex you're wanting back, it is the idea of being in a relationship.

Or, you may come to realize you're actually in love with your ex and would like a lifetime relationship with them and will do whatever it takes to win then back.

As always, the choice is yours. If you want your ex back, you'll have to work at it, but if you think you both were meant to spend life with each other, you'll both sort things out.

If you're wanting to get back with your ex, then contact them and ask to go out and have a face-to-face conversation, either over coffee or dinner. Get them to understand just how you feel about them and that you'd like to try to repair the relationship.

There most likely will be some changes that both of you are going to have to make, you know this because you've just experienced your relationship breaking up.

Its going to take work on both your parts to resolve the issues in order to make the relationship work the second time around. Remember though, before going to all this work to get your ex back, you need to have a honest answer from yourself as to “why do I want my ex-back?”


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mary  

I have been greatly encouraged by the testimonies from those that Dr Love Spell caster Solution have helped to get their ex back between 48hrs . I have the same problem Two months ago,I fell in love with a Lady at work and we were in deep love for one year and half but the moment she discovered that i lied to her about my real age she decided to break up with me and After couple of weeks we break up she got New job with another company in a different City about 105 km away from me ,We communicate with each other once in a while but all what she want from me is just a friend . I really need her back in my life because i love her so much and i never feel this way before , cant stand the pain i go through everyday by day thinking about her because i miss her so much,then a friend of mine David refer me to contact DR Love Spell Caster for solution (oguuprince1 hotmail com) i contact Dr Love for help ,he assure me she will come back to me between 48 hrs after performing spell on her,at first i don't believe it will work because i don't know someone like Dr Love spell caster solution exist in the world to help people get there love back until the next day i saw my ex girlfriend kate knocking my door early in the Morning . she told me she was very sorry that she don't meant to hurt my feeling about her ,Now we are planing to get married soon .thanks so much DR Love.

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  about 5 years ago
mary  

I have been greatly encouraged by the testimonies from those that Dr Love Spell caster Solution have helped to get their ex back between 48hrs . I have the same problem Two months ago,I fell in love with a Lady at work and we were in deep love for one year and half but the moment she discovered that i lied to her about my real age she decided to break up with me and After couple of weeks we break up she got New job with another company in a different City about 105 km away from me ,We communicate with each other once in a while but all what she want from me is just a friend . I really need her back in my life because i love her so much and i never feel this way before , cant stand the pain i go through everyday by day thinking about her because i miss her so much,then a friend of mine David refer me to contact DR Love Spell Caster for solution (oguuprince1 hotmail com) i contact Dr Love for help ,he assure me she will come back to me between 48 hrs after performing spell on her,at first i don't believe it will work because i don't know someone like Dr Love spell caster solution exist in the world to help people get there love back until the next day i saw my ex girlfriend kate knocking my door early in the Morning . she told me she was very sorry that she don't meant to hurt my feeling about her ,Now we are planing to get married soon .thanks so much DR Love.

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  about 5 years ago

My advice to any one who might be thinking of contacting a spell caster,is to contact Metodo i know he the only real spell caster i think still leaves his methods will speak and make you believe. I am not really that kind of person that disclose much about myself experience especially on the internet but today i am going to make an to exception I really never intended to say to anybody that i used a spell to get what i wanted in life not cos i am ashamed of it but cos some may never believe cos its seem like something that can never happen. All it take is to find the real and right spell caster. Am that kind of person that have always thought that marrying a rich man will set me free in financially as a matter of fact i have been married to to four different men all for money i guess after every divorce with every one of them i didn't as much as i expected even when there was no prenuptial agreement signed. But When i met my firth to be husband,i never expected i will fall for him so much i mean he was so charming cute and for the first time he made me feel safe like he will always be here for me not matter what happens. For the first time i was in love. Maybe i don't know what love is cos i never felt it for any one my ex husband the only detail i can give is that my heart literally beats fast when he was around me, anytime he ran his finger through my hair. I always knew my past will come to hurt me no matter what i do but i never gave it to much thought cos i never thought i will meet this kind of man. At the time i meant him ,it was not a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. We moved in together and our relationship just blosoomed. He was gentle with me always i mean my life was a fairy tale for a moment. But then again my past life that was to be left in the closet got out. I was so much in love to not tell him about my pasted life i just wanted to left him know like this was the person i use to be but cos of him i changed .He brought me to the light. I guess that was not the case he grew mad at me and thought i was going to do the same thing to him just like my exes. I don't know if it was that in the last 4 years i have been married four time to four different men cos of their bank statement that made him mad of was that i didn't tell him all this while. All the same after a while of not speaking with me he moved out. I thought he was going to call i just wanted to give him space i mean my friends suggested i did that but time few by with no call no text the only time he came back to our house was to pick his remaining things. The first man i have ever loved was walking out of my life just like a mist that comes and go i wanted him back to show him that he changed me to show him with him am a different person,He kept saying he would not want the same thing to happen to him just like my exes i believed he still loved he though he never said but that thought made me contact Metodo the spell caster for help. I saw positive comments about him and someone said she has actually seen, that is come in contact with him during the time he helped her. Was not really sure what to believe i just thought i was desperate i need help right away or i was going to lose my dream man for life. Like honestly i was not going to travel for over thirteen hours or so to look for metodo in were he leaves cos one i din't know anybody there and two my run my private spa so i had little all not time and it will be an expensive thing to do. I could not also get the materials he needed to cast the spell so i had to ask him to get them for me so i can give him the money to pay for them. Within the first seven week he sent me a some candle with some hand written don't really know what to call it but will say words to recite at night at the right hour. At that time within the seven days, Stephen started coming around all the time i mean i don't think it was coincidental cos really it wasn't. I believed what Metodo was doing was working. Just after those seven day i received a parcel with something he gave me instruction on how to use. This is no lie in anyway Stephen and i are back together now he is no slave to anything cos of the spell he is just the way he was before the spell only made him love me more and never talk or think about my past life. Not everybody will believe this more over its just something on the internet but my heart knows every of this word that formed this entire comment is true. Living Metodo contact for those who believes me and needs help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

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  about 5 years ago

I saw a testimony of Nadezhda Vyacheslav on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don't know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn't believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn't ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up. Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn't find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn't catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn't so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said "the spell does become effective at once that " she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again.We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { godsofosunx@rocketmail. com }

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  about 5 years ago

I have been reading about spell casting and its powers for a while but i never thought or it never occurred to me or i rather say that it happened that i never got myself in any situation that will make need the help of a spell caster.I read a lot of testimony on the internet on web pages, blog, and some on the face book page of some web site i linked with my Facebook with.I just wanted to know how it worked so i tried.I have always had a thing for this guy or i would say i liked this guy but he was kind of a mess cos of the lost of his wife.Contacting MUTTON OSUN was really easy for me cos all those other article had an email address i could use to contact him.Any way i was not allowed to tell any one till i have seen the result and important he told me i needed some materials for the spell casting.I guess he made some kind of harmless powdery substance with those materials and sent them over to me.He asked that i follow this instructions on how to make the spell active which i did.I must warn you it take at least two day to be effective cos it was after two days the man that never talks to me knocked at my door asking if i would like to watch movies with him at his place form there we kicked off.We have been together for 4 months now and still counting he is a really nice man i can am the luckiest woman in the world.I mean this only means that what MUTTON did is working and it changed both our life for good.I will also leave his mail here you contact purpose >> godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 5 years ago
sweetlady  

HOW DR LOVE SOLUTION HELP ME GET MY EX BACK I read some views about DR LOVE SOLUTION and I was very impressed about what DR LOVE SOLUTION has done to many peoples and touch so many life all over the world . I reach DR LOVE SOLUTION drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com Tel: +2348038096203 for help because my wife and I separated for three months (she asked for it) apparently she's fallen out of love with me and we've grown apart and has given up on our marriage of nearly 14 years we've been together for nearly 22 years I feel that we can't give up on this marriage and am trying everything to resolve the matter by all means, I'went for counseling but my wife doesn't want to !! Not sure what else to do then i seek Help from DR LOVE SPELL CASTER SOLUTION drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com to help me Restored my marriage problems and bring back my wife that separated from me 3 months because i love her so much and i still want to spend rest of my life with her, DR LOVE SPELL CASTER SOLUTION told me to relax and remain calm that my wife will come back to me between 48 hours after he cast a spell on her, thought it was a joke because i don't believe it will come to past that my 14 years of marriage will be Resolved by Dr Love because i have try every things to make my wife love me again . Saturday Morning Before 48 hours that Dr love said , someone was knocking at my Door when i went to the door i saw my Wife ,telling me she was very sorry for all her mistake and that i should forgive her for all her bad attitude towards me , i was very happy to hear that ,i forgive her and we are living together happily now, Thanks So much DR LOVE SPELL CASTER SOLUTION without you i wont have get my wife back to me . Laurence

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  about 5 years ago
nameme  

My name is really not important here cos all i can say is that if you need a spell caster to help you with your problem then the best one is MUTTON OSUN. He is the only reliable spell caster i know. I am composing this comment to pin the fact that MUTTON OSUN has also helped me. After six years of marriage it hard to really understand when your wife is see another man and asking for a divorce just so see can be with him. It so hard for me cos i thought we were doing fine. Maybe i was too blind that i didn't know something was wrong with us or i wasn't giving her the attention she needed. Which ever which way there was something that i knew,she was breaking my heart and i still loved her with my life. I know people may probably say it unlike a man but i lost my virginity to her and sine then there have been no other in my life but her. I gave up everything for her My family, and everything and everyone that wanted us not to be. I was ready to let her go i left our house and her new painter boyfriend moved in.They turned my private store room to his art studio and started sharing my bed with my wife. He was practically living my life for me cos everything i had in our house was converted to his. Before i even thought of spell casting i tried the memory lane method but she was not even willing to talk to me for more than a minute or even have a bit with me it was almost like she was allergic to me after five years of marriage. The thought of another man making love to my wife consumed me i lost focus and was totally confused on what to do. I remember drowning myself with bottles of vodka to kill the pain and try to forget her but i pass out and wake up thinking about her. Just when i thought i needed to get rid of of my cheating wife with the help on the internet, i came across a lot of comment on how MTTON OSUN has helped to get exes back so at that moment i was no longer thinking of how to get rid of her instead i was thinking and willing to do anything just to have my wife back. When i contacted the spell caster that is MUTTON OSUN with the email i saw on the comment he called me, after i made him understand my problem. He told me he was sad for me cos i left my whole world and family for her. He asked that i get some materials i can disclose but it nothing to worry about cos they are totally harmless. I felt it was gonna be hard to send them down to him so i gave him the money for the materials. After two days he sent me a package containing my spell. He instructed me on how to make it effective and i swear on my dead sister grave the spell made my wife mine again,Its was so supernatural how it happened i can't just explain from how she left the painter and everything beats my imagination all i know is that MUTTON OSUN spell is was powerful enough to get me my wife back. Contact him here for solution to your own problem godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 5 years ago

My wife has accused me of a lot of things in our years of marriage some of those accusation were true and i admitted to doing them but am to much in love with her to give her an s.t.d. She was down to end our marriage cos she believed i gave an s.t.d. She had a good reason to believe that cos of late i haven't been the best husband. Thank God that s@@t was clarified in the Trisha show that i was not responsible for the s.t.d. She was in love with me as i was in love with her. Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. We never really got along. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. After the show she was more down to live me. She asked that i move out of the house filled for a divorce and all. I could not let her go just like that.I got desperate and i panicking so i used a spell to get her back i know most people don't believe and you may call me crazy but it worked for me. I found a comment on internet about this spell caster Metodo Ell. The comment said he doesn't do spell for those who are not meant to be together. All i needed for the spell were materials to get the spell done. I could not get them so i paid him to get them for me since he is the expert in this stuff. As far as i can tell that s$$t worked cos all my marriage problem just fall off my shoulder and my stepson is cool with me now. If you want to get him to cast a spell for you contact him here with this email address metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com he could also do a direct spell maybe it meant cost a little more than mine i don't know him only can tell you that.

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  about 5 years ago
sweetlady  

DR LOVE SOLUTION BRING SOLUTION TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM my boy friend James broke up with me just because his Mother didn't accept my ethnic group , she believe we are totally difference in believing , we tried worked things out to let his mother to understand that there is love between us and we don't mind about ethnic group, last month my boy friend finally make up his mind and gave me a call early in the morning said he gave up on me that we have to broke up our relationship and told me to move on with my life, i went through pain and depress till a friend of mine introduce Dr Love spell Caster (drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com) Tel:2348038096203 to me that him will help me restored my relationship problem with my boy friend back to normal relationship and my boy friend James will come back to me and his Mother would accept as his wife , then i dont believe it will work but i told DR LOVE my relationship problem . he promise to help me restored my relationship back between 48hrs , so now i have my boy friend back to me between 48hrs he engaged me and we choose a date for our marriage and his mother accept me and she like me very much now ,Thanks you so much Dr Love . Warm Regards Jessica

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  about 5 years ago

As bizarre as using a spell to get close to the one you care about my sound to you all,its something you think of when you run out of option of what to do.And as a fact that i know, most of us are will to go to the extreme to get the person they care about close to them.Well in my case i fell in love with my neighbor wife.She was had it all i mean everything a man want and was in a loveless marriage.We started seeing each other, going out on romantic dates, of course no one knew about us and soon it was a love affair a passionate one but she was not will to live her husband cos she was scared of love.But then after 18 months of trying to convince and make her know an the guy she want to be with, i contacted MUTTON OSUN for help to make her live her loveless marriage.He help me but i had to provide some materials at three different stage of the spell casting. It took 7 days to be effective and all that. In the she left her loveless husband and since then we have been together it been a year now. If you may want to contact him use this email address godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 5 years ago
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