Is your ex girlfriend refusing to answer your calls, meet with you, or talk to you in any way? Well, there's good news and bad news. The bad news is you've probably been doing everything the wrong way to get her back and inadvertently driving her off. The good news is that it is totally possible to get your ex girlfriend back even if it feels hopeless. Why? Because she fell in love with you once, and if you become that person that she fell in love with again, it is totally possible.
The first reason she won't come back is because you are trying to get her back by calling, texting, and basically bombarding her with messages to take you back. You may be apologizing over and over and trying to convince her you are the best choice. Logically that makes sense, but since women respond to emotions, not logic, you are just going to be beating your head against the wall here (and I'm speaking from experience).
The next reason is that you are probably stressing over the breakup way too much. I know it hurts a LOT to be dumped by someone, but look at it this way: the energy you are not spending on worrying about what your girlfriend thinks is energy you can be spending on the person who should matter most in your world: YOU.
Adopt an exercise routine. Eat a good diet. Take care of your body. Have fun, indulging your passions for any activity you love. As long as you are taking steps to do things outside of staying home all day long crying over the breakup, you will feel a lot better – and that is one of the correct steps to getting your ex girlfriend back, in fact.
Finally, something that you might be encouraged by: most rebound relationships do NOT work out. She may have left you for another guy, but chances are she left because there was something unfulfilled in your relationship. It doesn't mean the other guy is better, faster, stronger, or more fun in bed. It just means that she wasn't getting something from you – and now is your chance to work on refreshing your connection to life and health and fun, making you an attractive guy in her eyes, and making her want to come back to you.
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